Does anyone believe in dream interpretation???

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Aleaf.CRX

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So, I've been having these really vivid dreams and was wondering if anyone believed that dreams had hidden subconscience meaning???? And if they do, does anyone know anything about it???
 
There's a book I have access to somewhere around the house that helps you interpret dreams. If I'm able to find it I'll let you know, but yes, I do somewhat believe in interpreting your dreams. I'll go into it later on as I have to go to work now.
 
My dreams involve me and my ex boyfriend, the one, well, I still love him. And, he says he loves me still too. But our history is real bad. And he has a gf, which I'm okay with, I'm too young to be in a serious relationship.

I don't remember the whole of all the dreams anymore, but for the most part, we're either kissing, holding hands, or just being near each other. In every dream, my first thought when these things happen is " doesn't he still have a gf?". I mean, I can interpret these dreams to a point, like the fact I was chased away from him and his gf up a flight of stairs by little monsters, and feeling happy when I'm with him in a dream.

Just stuff like that. I'm not trying to dump my old feelings on anyone, I just wanted a little more insight into this kind of thing.

Anyone with the same kind of experience???
 
Yeah, that's what I was thinking. Here's the part I remember:

My ex was in a living room. He wasn't paying any attention to me, like I wasn't there. Next thing I remember, I was being chased up stairs (with no walls on either side that ended in a carpeted wall) by these little lumpy blackish-dark green things on four legs. His gf (who I've never met) and some other girl I've never seen were just downstairs not paying any attention.

Other dreams lately with him in it, well, ususally we're holding hands or kissing or whatever and I'm really happy. The ones where he's still got a gf that I posted above.


I believe the chase ones are due to the fact that I'm now closed out of his life. I still love him, but to get over him or at least to grow up and get done what I need to, I've pushed him out of my mind and surpressed my feelings. The things chasing me is maybe illness or depression due to me missing him??? Maybe it's jealousy or anger?? I dunno, just part of what I think.
 
so how do you deal with denial though? i have these same recurring nightmares of my past relationship. im in a much healthier one now, and ash is great... but i cant get the whore i was/am in love with out of my mind.
 
I've tried every possible way I can think of to deal with them.... I've tried getting to know other people, I've tried gaining my own independance, mostly through my car, such as learning about it. I've tried not thinking about him, therepy, talking to him about how I feel and how he deals with his feelings about me, um.... I don't know what to do anymore. It shouldn't be this hard, he was the first guy I really loved and all, but this shit happens to people everyday, all the time.
 
Oh, and the other night, I had this crazy scary, realistic nightmare about this little midget or a doll, or child that chases me with a knife in someone's huge backyard and tried to kill me. I woke up in the middle of the night and nearly pissed my pants lol. It doesn't sound scary in real life, but I was terrified lol. I think it's funny.
 
So, I've been having these really vivid dreams and was wondering if anyone believed that dreams had hidden subconscience meaning???? And if they do, does anyone know anything about it???

Definatly, I have alll kinda f'd up dreams that I could decipher into real shit that could happen and alota things have happend.. We only use half our brain who knows what the minds capable of.. Dejavu happens all the time its crazyness.. not saying I'm psycic or anything like that.. just have fucked up dreams that have some unterior meaning.. and I analyze the hell outa everything anyways so I cant help but wonder.. Just last night I drempt I flipped someones honda accord, it roled all the way over back ono its wheels.. Within a block from my house.. but the wheels where so fukt i couldnt do nothing but go in circles.. I interpretate it like my lifes flipped upside down right now, I'm a wreck and doint nothing but going in circles.. yeah I feel ya on that..

- Kevin
 
Hell = Life, forsaken by Celerity.

And you know what I'm talking about :) You're typing one thing, but you're thinking another.
 
I have those moments. Well, I guess for the most part I'm doing better. It's usually when I'm being a total failure or having a real hard time with something that I think about him and miss him most. He was my savior from my dad's house. I guess part of me wants him to save me from adulthood.

But, I'm generally happy being single and I feel free for the most part. The minute any man tries to take complete control over my life, I'm gonna drop his ass. I dealt with that too much with my ex and I love my freedom more than anything....obviously, cuz I running around the US right now and actually, contrary to how I've acted, haven't regretted a moment of it.

Oh yeah, and I'm bipolar, so my ups and downs are a little....um different, if you haven't seen by now......:(


The first step is acceptance of your feelings and the understanding that they're both perfectly natural and normal. Thinking about said person isn't bad in and of itself, obsessive thoughts and thoughts of getting back together against your better judgment are counter-productive. Look at it this way, the more you try not to think about something, the more focused on that thought you actually are. So, you have to work towards accepting that its there and will always hold a place in both your mind and your heart. That will allow you to move forward and then allow good memories to replace the bad ones...instead of trying to gloss the bad ones over with good ones. And, above all else, you have to be honest with yourself. A lot of people recommend talking to yourself while looking into a mirror and I've found it to be incredibly helpful at times.

That said, the most important things to remember are these. You will take steps backwards at times so it's important to not beat yourself up for those missteps and this will take a lot of time and effort on your part. Set your long-term goal, short term goals, and then even more short term goals. Like the hash marks on a gas gauge, Full is your goal, you're on Empty, each 1/4 tank mark is a short-term goal and the smaller marks are the even more short-term goals. You can't get from E to F in one move, but you can get there by passing each one of those hash marks in succession.
 
Hell = Life, forsaken by Celerity.

And you know what I'm talking about :) You're typing one thing, but you're thinking another.


Oops, I did the quote thing again lol. Weird. Oh well.


Um, forgive me if it was obvious what that was supposed to mean, but.... what is that supposed to mean??? lol.
 
I know ya'll are gonna laugh at this one.. I do still.. but seriously though.. ALL MY Life I've had this one reoccouring dream.. I cant make any sense of it and dont know Why for a good 20 years I've had this dream now.. (I'm 28) .. Ya'll can laugh its all good.. shits weird to me.. So I lived in a 3 story house when I was just south of chicago growing up.. I always dream I'm walking down to the bottom of the stairs, to the down stairs Den, and walk into the utility room.. The door shuts behind me.. everythings black.. no door behind me anymore, empty space and fog all on the ground.. I look in front of me now theres a HUUUUGE Ferris wheel.. with Every ghost and goblin from scooby doo on it... and I'm So sure as soon as the ferris wheel stops turning they're all coming after me.. and theres nowhere to go... ..

Wtf do you make of that.. ?? I aint joking though, all jokes aside 20 damn years.. and scooby doo?? I dunno
 
This entire post. I'm not saying it's a lie, but this isn't what you want to say. You're prolly sitting there, feeling uncomfortable in your skin, You may have some hot prickles along your arm or something. You wanna talk.

Celerity is the Mind Taker.
 
with Every ghost and goblin from scooby doo on it... and I'm So sure as soon as the ferris wheel stops turning they're all coming after me.. and theres nowhere to go... ..
Call the Harlem Globetrotters, or Sonny and Cher. 40% of the time the ghosts are just Phyllis Diller in a costume.
 
My highschool art history teacher was into the whole dream interpretation thing, if you told her your dream she would be able to tell what everything in your dream symbolized, honestly she was a genius.
 
Interpret this one! :p

Few nights ago I had a dream I was the captain of my own mercenary space ship ala Firefly, only it could travel through time. If you wanted to go back in time and kill your grandfather/save the whales/whatever, you got a hold of me and my crew. We went on this mission to the future (Don't remember what it was originally for, I just get them there and drive the getaway ship), but it all went wrong and we got chased by an unstoppable Terminator type guy, through futuristic underground ruins. Eventually we were cornered by him, but discovered a weakness... The Terminator guy would always let you finish what you were doing before he killed you. :D We all came up with different excuses as to why he couldn't kill us yet (mine was that I was downloading a big file on my future-pda... I just kept restarting the download), and managed to get back to the ship. Just as we were about to board and get the heck out of dodge, the terminator guy comes out from the ship... He had ripped the ships' flux capacitor out so we couldn't leave! (It was an advanced, miniaturized flux capacitor, smaller, rounded, and more efficient looking, but still basically the same) I knew that once my download finished, I was toast. Then I woke up. :)
 
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