Bisexual girlfriend...

[drocca97]

Hypothetical Situation: Say you start talking to this cute chick and you get along great. She's fun and smart and all that good shit. Then you find out shes bisexual... does this bother you? Obviously this sounds like the opportunity of a lifetime but keep in mind the down sides: You cant fill all of her desires, and EVERYONE is competition.

 

[AHHVTEC]

id date her and ride it for all it was worth, but i wouldnt get married to her.

 

[jeffie7]

Hypothetical Situation: Say you start talking to this cute chick and you get along great. She's fun and smart and all that good shit. Then you find out shes bisexual... does this bother you? Obviously this sounds like the opportunity of a lifetime but keep in mind the down sides: You cant fill all of her desires, and EVERYONE is competition.

I'd rather my GF have had 3 girls tongues in her pussy then 3 dicks.

You cant fill all of her desires, and EVERYONE is competition.

You must be young, you will learn that no one woman will ever fill your desire, and you'll never fill all of any one womans desires. It's just like cars, 300WHP in a 350Z is not as fun as 350WHP is not as fun as 400WHP is not as fun as.. You will always want more. This goes for most everything in life.

 

[philyphreak2127]

no way man. I am dating a girl who is bi. If they are really into you then you can fill all there desires. If they wanna go date women while they are with you then they are cheating on you plain and simple and they need to go. I have dated this girl off and on for like 2 years and the only time she kissed or even flirted with anyone else was when we had broken up. Its all about trust just like any other relationship, but on the other side of it if you don't plan on this going too far and its just gonna be you guys goin on dates but not being exclusive then let her roam you never know you may get to join in the fun. by the way I am with Jeffie with that I would way rather date a girl who had hooked up with more girls than guys.

 

[drocca97]

id date her and ride it for all it was worth, but i wouldnt get married to her.

Ok... well maybe its not hypothetical. Ive actually been with her for 5 months (didnt want to say that but o well) and for some reason suddenly it bothers me. She really is the marrying type though. Scarry.

 

[philyphreak2127]

Why is that scary? People think about it, yeah they look at women too but if you are with some who is honest and wants to be with you they wouldn't be cheating on you at all. Girl or guy. If she says yes to marrying you obviously she would be happy with you rather than a girl.

 

[drocca97]

no way man. I am dating a girl who is bi. If they are really into you then you can fill all there desires. If they wanna go date women while they are with you then they are cheating on you plain and simple and they need to go. I have dated this girl off and on for like 2 years and the only time she kissed or even flirted with anyone else was when we had broken up. Its all about trust just like any other relationship, but on the other side of it if you don't plan on this going too far and its just gonna be you guys goin on dates but not being exclusive then let her roam you never know you may get to join in the fun. by the way I am with Jeffie with that I would way rather date a girl who had hooked up with more girls than guys.

True. Very true. Im really the jealous type too. We clash there.

 

[AHHVTEC]

True. Very true. Im really the jealous type too. We clash there.

but would you be if you got to join in

 

[philyphreak2127]

I am a jealous mofo too man. The only difference is I can't threaten to beat a chick's ass for lookin at my girl which is funny cause she gets checked out by girls more than I do.

 

[drocca97]

Really not sure there. She says she doesn't want to until i feel comfortable. I guess it would be cool but very awkward.

 

[AHHVTEC]

Really not sure there. She says she doesn't want to until i feel comfortable. I guess it would be cool but very awkward.

well man to be real with you the odds are yall arent gona make it, so bang her and her friends at the same time all you can while you can.

 

[drocca97]

I am a jealous mofo too man. The only difference is I can't threaten to beat a chick's ass for lookin at my girl which is funny cause she gets checked out by girls more than I do.

Oops... I did threaten a chick once. (She prolly could've taken me tho. lol.) . She was testing my girlfriend. (my girlfriend passed the test)

 

[drocca97]

well man to be real with you the odds are yall arent gona make it, so bang her and her friends at the same time all you can while you can.

Probably good advice, but easier said than done. (for me personally) Thanks for the advice and opinion. I really wanted to know how people stood on that issue.

 

[AHHVTEC]

Probably good advice, but easier said than done. (for me personally) Thanks for the advice and opinion. I really wanted to know how people stood on that issue.

well its kinda easy for me to say, kinda, lol,, see back in the day there was a few girl i tried to make serious g/f out of instead of just milking it, i should have milked it because the serious g/f thing didnt work. but i could have had my pie and eat it to but didnt know that until it was to late

 

[Briansol]

3-way = instant relationship failure 99.9995% of the time.

eat out her ass. she'll stick around for a while

 

[drocca97]

3-way = instant relationship failure 99.9995% of the time.

eat out her ass. she'll stick around for a while

Hahahaha thats funny as hell! SO fucking true too!

 

[drocca97]

well its kinda easy for me to say, kinda, lol,, see back in the day there was a few girl i tried to make serious g/f out of instead of just milking it, i should have milked it because the serious g/f thing didnt work. but i could have had my pie and eat it to but didnt know that until it was to late

I'm really bad about getting in deep with chicks quick. She really is a good chick tho. She changes her own oil for christ sake!

 

[BrutalB83]

3-way = instant relationship failure 99.9995% of the time.

eat out her ass. she'll stick around for a while

I concur with this statement. Don't ask me how I know...

Oh, and TTIWWOP

 

[Aleaf.CRX]

Um... being bi is really no different than being straight in the relationship realm. Trust me. You're probably gonna get more trouble from a straight bitch.

 

[awptickes]

Explain what you're feeling to her. Only she can make you feel better about it, or make promises.


When will people learn that talking is the best for everything? If I just would have talked to my fioncee, I would probably be married right now, and she wouldn't be married to some other girl. (Getting married would have been a mistake, and I see that now.) If I would have just talked to her about it, I'm pretty sure we would have broken up anyway. I was interested in this chick in high school who was dating another girl, I expressed my interest in her, and she ended it with her girlfriend. We ended up both being pretty happy.

One of the things living in europe does to you is that it makes you incredibly open and understanding about sexuality. Srsly. Just talk to her. The odds are in your favor that you will work something out. Maybe she is just interested? Dunno unless you talk.