invisibledemon

its all in reading the person.
you have to have a great judge of character.

i can usually read people really well when i meet them and am very good at it, i find it easiest to be introduced to the person, even if i have never heard a thing about the other person, i just need a basic introduction and im good to go to work.

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Celerity

If you act the way that a woman wants you to act, then all you're doing is changing up the odds that she'll take interest.

Like I said, it's all chance. If you act one way, or are truly the other way - you're just mixing up your equally qualitative odds.

What the fuck is the oil change thing ?

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Celerity

Oh.. the oil change thing.

No, that's a dumb idea. Even I know that. Buying shit for them. Phooey.

If it's no cost to YOU then yes, do it. But other than that, that will go completely unappreciated.

Also, this "tip toe around the pussy" method that everyone is pushing sucks elephant dong. I'm SO sick of putting the pussy on a pedestal, so afraid to step out of line with it, afraid to call it - "no no no... be cool.. introduce yourself then run away and hide"

fuck .. That ... Noise.. Be yourself, if you want something, chase it for a bit. If you get the idea that it wants nothing to do with you, then move on. This run-and-gun shit has GOT to go. We, as a society, are all the sudden giving TOTAL AND COMPLETE control to the vag. I won't stand still for this shit.

Listen, she may be hot and have a body to die for, but son - I'm deformed, and I've dated nothing but hot chicks. If you're not the best looker out there, it doesn't matter with women - you ride a bike, have a job, and know how to have fun. If you honestly smell good, then you're more gold to her than she is to you. Stop cowering to her stinky little hole whenever it comes around and be a fuckin man. You ride a bike for christ sake. You're the commodity.

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Celerity

And as far as acting cool, you work at a car dealer and ride a Razor around. It's too late to do the David Caruso thing from Jade. You're better off doing the Pee Wee Herman thing at this point. You can't play "The Fonz" to a girl that caught you playing "Steve Urkel".

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dacheat

i prefer the dane cook thing. he was totally dowdy-doable in 'employee of the month'

rrrrrrrrowr

definitely try not to bring pee wee herman to mind, ever.

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invisibledemon

hahaha, damn that was funny.

the oil change wouldnt cost me anything.
i can get around that.

and im not playing steve urkel on the scooter. i make fun of the scooter. its just something to change things up and make the day go faster.

im not tip toeing around the pussy.
im just not certain of what is too weird to people these days, im young but i still find things to be out of my days. so i have to ask and see what people think,.

i already have her attention. im not the greatest looker there is, but i know that i am appealing. thats not anything im worried about.
but i just dont wanna look her up and send her a message then have her think its kind of creepy.

thats all.

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dacheat

i applaud that, as a chick. don't forget there's maybe more enjoyment in the chase than in the 'now i have her wtf do i do with her part' so just enjoy the fact that someone is definitely checking you out. if/when you get your chance, you'll 'smash' her and then you can be happy you did it right.

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corvetteguy78

ooo so that's where i went wrong all those years

Celerity

arranging a free oil change = creepy.

Steve Urkel - Nothing wrong with that. Steve Urkel was cool as hell (He drove an Iosetta for christ sake). Riding a scooter around work being a clown is who you are... but now you're trying to be all cool and slick....

... Meaning you ARE tip toeing around the pussy. Don't fucking screw with Uncle Cel, his eyes work.

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reckedracing

the whole idea behind it is just to get her to come
she's not supossed to know he had anything to do with the oil change
its not a gift, its just a way to get her in there again for him to make a move

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Celerity

What she was piqued by was not ultra-scheming, cool as ice manipulator. She was piqued by a guy having some fun with life, who isn't afraid to let his inner "Urkel" out.

And the moment this was known, maximum effort was given to CHANGE THAT. DOES NOT COMPUTE

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invisibledemon

what do you mean?
i can be more than slick on a scooter. the scooter just gives something to laugh at.
im not trying to change anything about what she has seen, bc i can assure you that if she comes in again, i will be on the scooter.

the oil change thing, can be covered easily, example:
"hi miss whoever, im calling from mazda of somewhere to tell you that you have won a free oil change, when you came in to test drive a car last weekend we entered your name in the drawing, and you won, if you would like we can set up the appointment or you can call back at anytime and speak to our service writer."

done. no need to say who i am or anything of the sort.

im not understanding what you think i am trying to change.

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dacheat

i'm here to tell ya women like effort, it makes them feel good. that reads like effort, and i say go for it. if she ever does find out how the oil change really happened (like 10 years later when you're featured on some good morning america anniversary special) she can go awww and odds are very good she will not go 'eww you f!cking creep!'

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Celerity

Time changes everything. If she finds out in the next few weeks that he did, she prolly will say "eww you fucking creep". years down the road, maybe romantic.

The Onion points out to us: Man jailed for behavior otherwise seen in romantic comedy

Effort is all well and good, but a thick black line stands between calling her up, as yourself, to see if she would like to get to know you and "I ordered ether from Scientific Atlanta, a knife from walmart and a rag I found in my trunk".

In the proper context the oil change is a "romantic comedy" thing. In more circles it's a ploy to get her into your web. Again, perception being what it is - this can be taken either way. But as a hint, a pretty girl with no gun in her holster may range a bit to the offended side by the gesture.

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Dustin_m

Yea, the oil change thing sounds ok, but will more than likely backfire on you. Think about it, she comes in, you make a move, everything goes well. Then she leaves, first thing she does is call one of her girlfriends. You know that either her, or someone else she tells about it will bring up the idea that maybe the whole thing was a ploy to get her back in there. Then by the time you get off work that day to call her, her friends/family has already got her believing you are gonna stick a rag over her face and shove her in your trunk if she ever goes out with you.

Basically, if she doesn't put 2 and 2 together, someone else will. I'd say just call her. she might just be impressed that you had the balls to find her info and ask her. I mean, come on, what is she supposed to expect? If she really is into you, and is hoping that you guys get together, or whatever, then how else are you supposed to get ahold of her? getting her info or looking her up on Myspace is probably exactly what she is hoping for.

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invisibledemon

i didnt even remotely consider that.
maybe. we'll see. like i said, if she dont come in this coming sat, then i will more than likely look her up.

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SlushboxTeggy

You guys are seriously using calculus to solve first or second grade math. What I mean is, your over thinking it. Just let it flow and stop planning.

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INJEN78

yea but what if he lets it flow,and she doesnt come in again???
then he will have to use the plan,,
the plan being-if she doesnt come in saturday,either look her up on myspace or whatever,or get her info from the dealership,
just be cool about it,

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Dustin_m

well there needs to be a little planning involved since he doesn't really work in a place that a person would normally frequent. If he worked at a store or restaurant, then maybe he could expect her to show up again, but being a car dealership she probably won't come back around unless she has an issue she needs taken care of. That's why I think think he should just look up her info in the company's computer and be done with it.

Dude, you already know she fucking likes you, what are you waiting for. Now you just have to hope that the number in the system is for her and not her mom, since you said last time she was there w/ mom.

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Dustin_m

ha, beat me to it

oh and another thought, maybe a little creepy though, send something, an note/flowers maybe? but then again, that has "I know where you live, and might show up sometime..." written all over it

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SlushboxTeggy

Maybe its just me, but she said you were hot/cute and has your number. I don't chase girls like a dog chases a car. If she really, truly thinks your hot/cute and wants to pursue a date, she will use the number.

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reckedracing

find her on myspace, she might be a big whore that you won't want anything to do with anyway

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INJEN78

exactly^but if she does have myspace,,whore or not,,post the pix!!

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