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92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 12:07 PM

Well, I think I fucked up, again.

I'll go through the story.

STOP HERE IF YOU'RE GOING TO TALK SHIT. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT THIS TIME.

I was arrested, went to jail, got out on memorial day. Of course there was a huge weekend party. I got completely trashed, I was very far from sober, I passed out later that night in a bathtub. So like any other normal party, I was trying to get some. I was trying a lot harder since I got out of jail the day beofre, I could have cared less who it was. Well I did get some, from this girl that's wanted me for a while. Despite the fact that at least 10 people kept fucking with us, walking in, knocking on the door, yelling at the door...etc, we did it anyway. This is one of the times I actually did use a condom, but it broke, I took it off and I did pull out.

Well, I haven't talked to this girl until yesterday. There is defenitly a HUGE issue now, cause she's ~four months pregnant. I FUCKED up really bad, BUT there is a chance it's not mine, she was/is with this dude, he was on vacation Memorial day weekend. He doesn't know about me and her, but I asked him "Are you sure it's yours?" He said he's almost positive it's his because he slept with her a week before Memorial Day He has no idea she cheated on him.

I have to deal with this. I could NEVER be with this girl, it would be asking for me to die of a heart attack or something.

I don't want to hear all of "You're an idiot", "You did this XXX many times", "you deserve it".

I fucked up REALLY bad this time, I already know, I've done this one too many times and this is the time I really just got to deal with it. I don't want the girl to have an abortion, not only because it's wrong but because I don't know if it's mine.

I'm just stressing really hard because of this, I can't talk to anyone, my friends are idiots and think it's cool....it's not.

I'm seriously ready to hit someone or something. I can't believe this is happening.

Again, don't start bashing me and shit. I knwo I fucked up, I'm owning up to my very bad choices. I told her if it ends up being mine I'll take care of it.

Pray for me.

dohcvtec_accord · 08-03-2005, 12:15 PM

Ummm, I'd say don't worry until there's a paternity test. You said it might not be yours. No sense is getting all worked up if you're not sure.

Did she use protection with him? If not, sounds like a much better chance that it's his and not yours. I take it she's not on birth control?

MadMaXXX · 08-03-2005, 12:21 PM

or you can just let that guy raise him regardless whether its his or not

E_SolSi · 08-03-2005, 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dohcvtec_accord@Aug 3 2005, 01:15 PM
Ummm, I'd say don't worry until there's a paternity test. You said it might not be yours. No sense is getting all worked up if you're not sure.

Quoted post

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 12:26 PM

no birth control.

I didn't ask him, I wish there was a way to do a paternity test before the baby comes out.

SiLude · 08-03-2005, 12:29 PM

damn, that sucks. but keep your head up, dont get all bummed out since it might not be yours.

EDIT: now would be a good time to smoke a blunt

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 12:31 PM

yea it would. when i found out yesterday it was a good time to smoke. It's dry, I couldn't find it anywhere. So I killed like 1/4 bottle of bacardi.

I'm really hoping it's not mine.

Battle Pope · 08-03-2005, 12:31 PM

Yeah dude. Untill the tests prove you fucked up, I wouldn't worry.

adnoh · 08-03-2005, 12:34 PM

Dude.........

I don't pray, but my thoughts are with you. Piece of advice: Next time, fuck a girl because you love her, not just to get laid, you have your hands for that purpose, and they cant get inpregnated or infect you.

And if that senario ever happens again, the morning after pill does wonders.

Hope this shit turns out in your favour.

pissedoffsol · 08-03-2005, 12:38 PM

about 4 months put its at august 30th, not july 30th.

she was knocked up when you were hitting it.

JDMPlaya · 08-03-2005, 12:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pissedoffsol@Aug 3 2005, 05:38 PM
about 4 months put its at august 30th, not july 30th.

she was knocked up when you were hitting it.

Quoted post

I'll think you'll be alright

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 12:47 PM

nah, I said "about". I'd have to call her to ask exaclty how many days/months it actually is.

But hopefully I'll be free and clear.

phyregod · 08-03-2005, 12:55 PM

Do a little motorboatin'? You motorboatin son of a bitch!

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 01:07 PM

hahah....brrrrrrbbbbbrrrrr

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 01:08 PM

im not having sex anymore. I'm going to walmart and buying some lotion, then I'm going to the bodega thing and buying some pornos.

integraslut78 · 08-03-2005, 01:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by pissedoffsol@Aug 3 2005, 10:38 AM
about 4 months put its at august 30th, not july 30th.

she was knocked up when you were hitting it.

Quoted post

For the second time ever I agree with B I think she was already prego when you hit it.
Good luck mang.

Bob Vila · 08-03-2005, 01:12 PM

unreal.

92dxhatch · 08-03-2005, 01:25 PM

will keep you in prayer bud, good luck, Godbless yo!

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 01:27 PM

i really hope this ends up not being mine

B16 · 08-03-2005, 01:39 PM

That sucks... Next time just fuck them in the ass

formby · 08-03-2005, 01:41 PM

dont stress it..yet .

.you are not the father until you sign the birth certificate.....get a blood test and then you make you final judgment...

..when my wife gets pregnant i am doing the same thing....i dont trust anyone ...just look at the other guys life now....but good luck

phyregod · 08-03-2005, 01:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by formby@Aug 3 2005, 01:41 PM
dont stress it..yet .

.you are not the father until you sign the birth certificate.....get a blood test and then you make you final judgment...

..when my wife gets pregnant i am doing the same thing....i dont trust anyone ...just look at the other guys life now....but good luck

Quoted post

You are going to blood test your wife's baby? Nice trusting relationship you two have going there.

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 01:52 PM

lol...anal isn't usually my thing.

I would do a paternity test on my GF or when I'm married my wife.

St. Lukes in Bethelham, PA MAKES the father take a paternity test, otherwise he isn't supposed to sign it.

I'm not signing that BC until I know it's mine.

Estorvito · 08-03-2005, 01:53 PM

wow...Hope it aint yours mang! Child support sux.....

92civicb18b1 · 08-03-2005, 01:54 PM

i bet...

Estrovito,

Shaun knows her, ask him about her.

08-03-2005, 12:07 PM	#1
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	Well, I think I fucked up, again. I'll go through the story. STOP HERE IF YOU'RE GOING TO TALK SHIT. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT THIS TIME. I was arrested, went to jail, got out on memorial day. Of course there was a huge weekend party. I got completely trashed, I was very far from sober, I passed out later that night in a bathtub. So like any other normal party, I was trying to get some. I was trying a lot harder since I got out of jail the day beofre, I could have cared less who it was. Well I did get some, from this girl that's wanted me for a while. Despite the fact that at least 10 people kept fucking with us, walking in, knocking on the door, yelling at the door...etc, we did it anyway. This is one of the times I actually did use a condom, but it broke, I took it off and I did pull out. Well, I haven't talked to this girl until yesterday. There is defenitly a HUGE issue now, cause she's ~four months pregnant. I FUCKED up really bad, BUT there is a chance it's not mine, she was/is with this dude, he was on vacation Memorial day weekend. He doesn't know about me and her, but I asked him "Are you sure it's yours?" He said he's almost positive it's his because he slept with her a week before Memorial Day He has no idea she cheated on him. I have to deal with this. I could NEVER be with this girl, it would be asking for me to die of a heart attack or something. I don't want to hear all of "You're an idiot", "You did this XXX many times", "you deserve it". I fucked up REALLY bad this time, I already know, I've done this one too many times and this is the time I really just got to deal with it. I don't want the girl to have an abortion, not only because it's wrong but because I don't know if it's mine. I'm just stressing really hard because of this, I can't talk to anyone, my friends are idiots and think it's cool....it's not. I'm seriously ready to hit someone or something. I can't believe this is happening. Again, don't start bashing me and shit. I knwo I fucked up, I'm owning up to my very bad choices. I told her if it ends up being mine I'll take care of it. Pray for me. __________________ DO NOT PM ME WITH TECH QUESTIONS!!! Current Rides 1992 Chevy S-10 Ext. Cab Previous 1992 Civic DX Hatch = 1994 B18B1 Turbo Rebuilt Garrett .60/.48 T3, log style mani and DIY downpipe, DSM 440's, kteller IC piping, JRC Intercooler, Home Depot style oil lines, HKS BOV, Crome Tuned, 253whp 1994 Civic VX Hatch, 1992 b18a1 swap 1993 Civic CX Hatch, 2000 B18b1


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08-03-2005, 12:15 PM	#2
dohcvtec_accord WRX Sellout Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: The left lane Age: 32 Posts: 8,498 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2002 WRB Impreza WRX Rep Power: 100	Ummm, I'd say don't worry until there's a paternity test. You said it might not be yours. No sense is getting all worked up if you're not sure. Did she use protection with him? If not, sounds like a much better chance that it's his and not yours. I take it she's not on birth control?

08-03-2005, 12:21 PM	#3
MadMaXXX Mad Man Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: up and down the east coast Age: 24 Posts: 886 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 96 civic dx Rep Power: 31	or you can just let that guy raise him regardless whether its his or not

08-03-2005, 12:26 PM	#5
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	no birth control. I didn't ask him, I wish there was a way to do a paternity test before the baby comes out.

08-03-2005, 12:29 PM	#6
SiLude Senior Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Las Vegas biotch Posts: 413 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 14	damn, that sucks. but keep your head up, dont get all bummed out since it might not be yours. EDIT: now would be a good time to smoke a blunt

08-03-2005, 12:31 PM	#7
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	yea it would. when i found out yesterday it was a good time to smoke. It's dry, I couldn't find it anywhere. So I killed like 1/4 bottle of bacardi. I'm really hoping it's not mine.

08-03-2005, 12:31 PM	#8
Battle Pope DAT CAT Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Southern Oregon Coast Age: 24 Posts: 9,636 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic LX Rep Power: 219	Yeah dude. Untill the tests prove you fucked up, I wouldn't worry.

08-03-2005, 12:34 PM	#9
adnoh Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Ontario Age: 29 Posts: 1,017 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 23	Dude......... I don't pray, but my thoughts are with you. Piece of advice: Next time, fuck a girl because you love her, not just to get laid, you have your hands for that purpose, and they cant get inpregnated or infect you. And if that senario ever happens again, the morning after pill does wonders. Hope this shit turns out in your favour.

08-03-2005, 12:38 PM	#10
pissedoffsol RETIRED Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Retirement Home Age: 29 Posts: 49,950 iTrader: 2 / 100% Ride: Electric Scooter Blog Entries: 1 Rep Power: 532	about 4 months put its at august 30th, not july 30th. she was knocked up when you were hitting it.

08-03-2005, 12:47 PM	#12
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	nah, I said "about". I'd have to call her to ask exaclty how many days/months it actually is. But hopefully I'll be free and clear.

08-03-2005, 12:55 PM	#13
phyregod !!YTINASNI Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Central Texas Age: 30 Posts: 9,078 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: '06 Element , '07 CBR 1000rr, '91 CRX, '98 jeep GC 4x4 Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 474	Do a little motorboatin'? You motorboatin son of a bitch!

08-03-2005, 01:07 PM	#14
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	hahah....brrrrrrbbbbbrrrrr

08-03-2005, 01:08 PM	#15
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	im not having sex anymore. I'm going to walmart and buying some lotion, then I'm going to the bodega thing and buying some pornos.

08-03-2005, 01:12 PM	#17
Bob Vila aliv dod Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Bristol, Ct. Age: 29 Posts: 4,372 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: A carriage Rep Power: 100	unreal.

08-03-2005, 01:25 PM	#18
92dxhatch Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: nor*cal Posts: 956 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 20	will keep you in prayer bud, good luck, Godbless yo!

08-03-2005, 01:27 PM	#19
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	i really hope this ends up not being mine

08-03-2005, 01:39 PM	#20
B16 Super Moderator Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: yay area, CA Age: 31 Posts: 7,007 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 155	That sucks... Next time just fuck them in the ass

08-03-2005, 01:41 PM	#21
formby learning in progress Join Date: Feb 2003 Age: 27 Posts: 5,742 iTrader: 4 / 100% Ride: 00' Montero sport, 99' lsv civic Rep Power: 94	dont stress it..yet . .you are not the father until you sign the birth certificate.....get a blood test and then you make you final judgment... ..when my wife gets pregnant i am doing the same thing....i dont trust anyone ...just look at the other guys life now....but good luck

08-03-2005, 01:52 PM	#23
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	lol...anal isn't usually my thing. I would do a paternity test on my GF or when I'm married my wife. St. Lukes in Bethelham, PA MAKES the father take a paternity test, otherwise he isn't supposed to sign it. I'm not signing that BC until I know it's mine.

08-03-2005, 01:53 PM	#24
Estorvito Soy Boricua Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Buffalo NY Posts: 2,028 iTrader: 1 / 100% Ride: BoOsted fodo civic Rep Power: 33	wow...Hope it aint yours mang! Child support sux.....

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08-03-2005, 01:54 PM	#25
92civicb18b1 The Trisexual Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: The asshole of the USA, New Jersey Age: 22 Posts: 8,874 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2007 Civic, 1995 Jeep Grand Cherokee Rep Power: 123	i bet... Estrovito, Shaun knows her, ask him about her.