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oneofakinduserid · 07-08-2008, 05:05 PM

One thing I've noticed: when a guy that you don't particularly know that well says something like "you're cute/hot/sexy," he is administering a field test. What he wants to do is see you're reaction to a seemingly harmless comment. It is this reaction that plants the seed of the "maybe I can fuck her" bush. If you giggle and blush, he thinks he will have a good chance. If you suddenly get distant and withdrawn, or ignore the comment all together, sometimes it gives the observant ones an idea that it'll take a bit more than that.

From the looks of your prior threads/comments that I've read, since that's about all I have to go by, you've come quite a ways as far as growing up, but you still have a lot to learn and see. Right now it's the boys you're age that will tell you what you want to hear to reach their hidden agenda, but you'll soon learn that it doesn't stop there. A car salesman will start a small talk conversation with you to feel you out, figure out how to approach his proposal and unless you're on top of things he'll sell you something that you didn't even know you needed. Waiters at resteraunts will make the evening special sound exquisitely appetizing, but only because their managers have some contest going on with a prize to whomever sells the most smoked salmon, since the salmon in the cooler goes bad in two days. All through life you are going to encounter the same situation with different names and different pursuasive techniques. It's up to you to figure out who's bullshitting and who's not. Consider the guys that you encounter throughout life as different tax brackets: as you get older you're more prone to different ages and different attitudes/reactions to rejection. And really, the only time I ever found someone that was right for me was when I had already said fuck it and stopped looking entirely.

But try to remember one thing, as some of the guys have already said. A lot of guys can be real dicks, it's because of the hormones/instincts. At the same time (no one will ever be able to sway my oppinion on this), all women.. and I do mean all... are insane. We think we like a guy who seems nice, he starts to get attached, then he's smothering us. We say we need space, he keeps trying for a few days, maybe a week, then says fuck it and stops calling. Then girl thinks, "why did he stop calling? he's a dick." It's a constant circle of not knowing what we want, or thinking we want something that we have no idea about. Guys might be naturally stupid, but girls are just plain crazy. We're indecisive, insecure, and pretty much neurotic from birth, it can't be helped. Even when we say we're super secure about our looks and our lives, it's mainly because we're insecure about being insecure.

Ok I'm done now..

Aleaf.CRX · 07-08-2008, 05:16 PM

Lol, I agree with a lot of that. But what happens when you can openly admit all that? When I can do that, i can see dome of the craziness disappear. But, I do agree, girls are crazy and guys are just plain stupid. But there are always exceptions.

B · 07-08-2008, 05:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aleaf.CRX

I just want respect..

to some people, that's more important.

Aleaf.CRX · 07-08-2008, 05:39 PM

Wait, what? Are you saying to some people like to fight more, or they just want respect more.... I'm confused, that wording is weird...

B · 07-08-2008, 05:45 PM

omg. go watch the fast and furious again

Aleaf.CRX · 07-08-2008, 05:47 PM

God, I haven't seen that movie in a long ass time. No wonder I didn't get it.

Btw, I keep forgetting to ask, wtf is up with your avatar lol?

B · 07-08-2008, 06:17 PM

i wanna give it to ya

90_EF_Hatch · 07-08-2008, 06:39 PM

haha

good ol' tom

BrutalB83 · 07-08-2008, 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by oneofakinduserid

One thing I've noticed: when a guy that you don't particularly know that well says something like "you're cute/hot/sexy," he is administering a field test. What he wants to do is see you're reaction to a seemingly harmless comment. It is this reaction that plants the seed of the "maybe I can fuck her" bush. If you giggle and blush, he thinks he will have a good chance. If you suddenly get distant and withdrawn, or ignore the comment all together, sometimes it gives the observant ones an idea that it'll take a bit more than that.

From the looks of your prior threads/comments that I've read, since that's about all I have to go by, you've come quite a ways as far as growing up, but you still have a lot to learn and see. Right now it's the boys you're age that will tell you what you want to hear to reach their hidden agenda, but you'll soon learn that it doesn't stop there. A car salesman will start a small talk conversation with you to feel you out, figure out how to approach his proposal and unless you're on top of things he'll sell you something that you didn't even know you needed. Waiters at resteraunts will make the evening special sound exquisitely appetizing, but only because their managers have some contest going on with a prize to whomever sells the most smoked salmon, since the salmon in the cooler goes bad in two days. All through life you are going to encounter the same situation with different names and different pursuasive techniques. It's up to you to figure out who's bullshitting and who's not. Consider the guys that you encounter throughout life as different tax brackets: as you get older you're more prone to different ages and different attitudes/reactions to rejection. And really, the only time I ever found someone that was right for me was when I had already said fuck it and stopped looking entirely.

But try to remember one thing, as some of the guys have already said. A lot of guys can be real dicks, it's because of the hormones/instincts. At the same time (no one will ever be able to sway my oppinion on this), all women.. and I do mean all... are insane. We think we like a guy who seems nice, he starts to get attached, then he's smothering us. We say we need space, he keeps trying for a few days, maybe a week, then says fuck it and stops calling. Then girl thinks, "why did he stop calling? he's a dick." It's a constant circle of not knowing what we want, or thinking we want something that we have no idea about. Guys might be naturally stupid, but girls are just plain crazy. We're indecisive, insecure, and pretty much neurotic from birth, it can't be helped. Even when we say we're super secure about our looks and our lives, it's mainly because we're insecure about being insecure.

Ok I'm done now..

You are a female? I did not know this...

Luis998 · 07-08-2008, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by B

to some people, that's more important.

LMFAO! I wish I could rep you for this one, B. haha!

aace55 · 10-06-2008, 06:39 PM

all of these sayings are really dumb, get a life, first then go away

INJEN78 · 10-06-2008, 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aace55

all of these sayings are really dumb, get a life, first then go away

you are an assbag,check the thread date

B · 10-06-2008, 07:04 PM

nice fist post.... :rollseyes:

UNDR8D · 10-06-2008, 07:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aace55

all of these sayings are really dumb, get a life, first then go away

And you put your comma in the wrong place dip shit.

cjvictoria · 10-06-2008, 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Aleaf.CRX

Lol, true. I dunno, I just want people to like me for me, not because of how I look.

A great writer once said, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter won't mind." -Dr. Seuss

It's the truth... i think. Works for me anyways.

invisibledemon · 10-06-2008, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by B

nice fist post.... :rollseyes:

yep, those fist posts will get ya, careful.

cjvictoria · 10-06-2008, 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by invisibledemon

yep, those fist posts will get ya, careful.

bahaha! fist post

this is an old ass thread but it is quite amusing

phyregod · 10-06-2008, 10:31 PM

Why do I want to stab cjvictoria in the throat with a soldering iron?

Is it just me?

Drake · 10-06-2008, 10:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phyregod

Why do I want to stab cjvictoria in the throat with a soldering iron?

Is it just me?

Ill dig the hole.

AHHVTEC · 10-06-2008, 11:03 PM

formby · 10-07-2008, 11:59 AM

we need some Boobies in this thread....

Sabz5150 · 10-07-2008, 12:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by B

the answer to your problem is talking to guys on myspace.

Ding, ding, ding, ding!

Guys on MySpace = dicks.

INJEN78 · 10-07-2008, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phyregod

Why do I want to stab cjvictoria in the throat with a soldering iron?

Is it just me?

nope its not just you

doubleD06 · 10-07-2008, 04:55 PM

yea i have dealt with before and its scary but its retarded at the sametime.. i dont get why the hell guys are like that. sometimes i wonder if they will ever grow up lol.. but not all guys are like that i have a great man that is nothing like that thank god lol

sufikation · 10-07-2008, 04:57 PM

boys have a penis, girls have a vagina...enough said.

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10-07-2008, 04:55 PM	#99
doubleD06 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Puyallup,wa Age: 22 Posts: 141 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 23	yea i have dealt with before and its scary but its retarded at the sametime.. i dont get why the hell guys are like that. sometimes i wonder if they will ever grow up lol.. but not all guys are like that i have a great man that is nothing like that thank god lol __________________

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07-08-2008, 05:05 PM	#76
oneofakinduserid Eh? Join Date: May 2008 Location: Mebane, NC Age: 25 Posts: 243 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 93 Civic DX and an 89 CRX Rep Power: 33	One thing I've noticed: when a guy that you don't particularly know that well says something like "you're cute/hot/sexy," he is administering a field test. What he wants to do is see you're reaction to a seemingly harmless comment. It is this reaction that plants the seed of the "maybe I can fuck her" bush. If you giggle and blush, he thinks he will have a good chance. If you suddenly get distant and withdrawn, or ignore the comment all together, sometimes it gives the observant ones an idea that it'll take a bit more than that. From the looks of your prior threads/comments that I've read, since that's about all I have to go by, you've come quite a ways as far as growing up, but you still have a lot to learn and see. Right now it's the boys you're age that will tell you what you want to hear to reach their hidden agenda, but you'll soon learn that it doesn't stop there. A car salesman will start a small talk conversation with you to feel you out, figure out how to approach his proposal and unless you're on top of things he'll sell you something that you didn't even know you needed. Waiters at resteraunts will make the evening special sound exquisitely appetizing, but only because their managers have some contest going on with a prize to whomever sells the most smoked salmon, since the salmon in the cooler goes bad in two days. All through life you are going to encounter the same situation with different names and different pursuasive techniques. It's up to you to figure out who's bullshitting and who's not. Consider the guys that you encounter throughout life as different tax brackets: as you get older you're more prone to different ages and different attitudes/reactions to rejection. And really, the only time I ever found someone that was right for me was when I had already said fuck it and stopped looking entirely. But try to remember one thing, as some of the guys have already said. A lot of guys can be real dicks, it's because of the hormones/instincts. At the same time (no one will ever be able to sway my oppinion on this), all women.. and I do mean all... are insane. We think we like a guy who seems nice, he starts to get attached, then he's smothering us. We say we need space, he keeps trying for a few days, maybe a week, then says fuck it and stops calling. Then girl thinks, "why did he stop calling? he's a dick." It's a constant circle of not knowing what we want, or thinking we want something that we have no idea about. Guys might be naturally stupid, but girls are just plain crazy. We're indecisive, insecure, and pretty much neurotic from birth, it can't be helped. Even when we say we're super secure about our looks and our lives, it's mainly because we're insecure about being insecure. Ok I'm done now..

07-08-2008, 05:16 PM	#77
Aleaf.CRX Hates Cunts! Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,025 iTrader: 0 / 0% Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 72	Lol, I agree with a lot of that. But what happens when you can openly admit all that? When I can do that, i can see dome of the craziness disappear. But, I do agree, girls are crazy and guys are just plain stupid. But there are always exceptions.

07-08-2008, 05:39 PM	#79
Aleaf.CRX Hates Cunts! Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,025 iTrader: 0 / 0% Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 72	Wait, what? Are you saying to some people like to fight more, or they just want respect more.... I'm confused, that wording is weird...

07-08-2008, 05:45 PM	#80
B Administrator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: across the way Age: 29 Posts: 8,019 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 318ti, dakota, genesis 2.0t Rep Power: 403	omg. go watch the fast and furious again

07-08-2008, 05:47 PM	#81
Aleaf.CRX Hates Cunts! Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,025 iTrader: 0 / 0% Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 72	God, I haven't seen that movie in a long ass time. No wonder I didn't get it. Btw, I keep forgetting to ask, wtf is up with your avatar lol?

07-08-2008, 06:17 PM	#82
B Administrator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: across the way Age: 29 Posts: 8,019 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 318ti, dakota, genesis 2.0t Rep Power: 403	i wanna give it to ya

10-06-2008, 06:39 PM	#86
aace55 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 1 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 0	all of these sayings are really dumb, get a life, first then go away

10-06-2008, 07:04 PM	#88
B Administrator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: across the way Age: 29 Posts: 8,019 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 318ti, dakota, genesis 2.0t Rep Power: 403	nice fist post.... :rollseyes:

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