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capricefrk013 · 01-23-2009, 09:56 PM

If you know somebody on drugs, Please do what you can to help them out. I just had to go down to the coroners office tonight with my dad to identify my 24 year old younger brothers body. He had an addiction to pills. His choice was Oxycontin. He got caught by his & my older step brother and we thought that was a wake up call. He even told me straight up that he fucked up his life and wanted to fix it. Unfortunately I couldn't do much because of my busy schedule. He worked with our father at his shop. He picked up auto repair really quick and was pretty damn good at it. He surprised us all. He even wanted to take the ASE mechanics certification test. He felt VERY confident about it. He will be missed. I just wish I could have been there more for him after he told me he fucked up his life.

I just had to share this to others who may know someone that is asking for help but aren't actually saying they need it or asking for it but hinting towards it. Thank you for taking the time to read this.

nootrac22 · 01-23-2009, 09:59 PM

sorry for your loss.

austin20110 · 01-23-2009, 10:16 PM

sorry for your loss man

dacheat · 01-23-2009, 11:02 PM

B · 01-23-2009, 11:05 PM

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Old$koolLude · 01-23-2009, 11:38 PM

sorry for your loss

92stoccord · 01-23-2009, 11:51 PM

Sorry about your loss my man. My old man just beat morphine. I knew he had a problem, but I really didn't know how to help him. He'd just tell me hes on it for a reason and I wouldn't understand. It's hard on everybody. I'll remember your story though if it ever enters my life again. Thanks for the motivation. You're a good man. Sorry about your brother.

E_SolSi · 01-24-2009, 12:25 AM

**TxChristopheru** · 01-24-2009, 12:38 AM

MthaFuknGreen · 01-24-2009, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by TxChristopheru

just letting you know.. youre probably gonna get bashed for that.

no comment on this by me.

George777 · 01-24-2009, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by TxChristopheru

Could you get an more ignorant? There is nothing funny about this shit.

OP, sorry for your loss man.

INJEN78 · 01-24-2009, 08:46 AM

sorry for your loss,keep your head up,and dont fall into his cycle
pills seem to be the huge drug of choice lately

capricefrk013 · 01-24-2009, 10:00 AM

Thank you everybody for your support except for the dumb ass that posted the wrong thing. You all know who im talking about. He was in denial about it every time he was confronted. He would steal things from my dad n sell them just to get his fix. He took my dads laptop in braod daylight one at the shop and that was the last straw for my dad. He told him dont come back to work and he gave him some time to bring back the laptop but he never did and we knew he sold it. So when he got caught by his stepbrother, my dad told our little brother to bring him to the shop. So he showed up and it was a lil awkward for me to see him but I really thought he wanted to get clean until last nite.

phyregod · 01-24-2009, 10:09 AM

Sorry man. Maybe your wakeup call will help others. Way to go posting it in this style.

capricefrk013 · 01-24-2009, 10:58 AM

Thank you sir.

sufikation · 01-24-2009, 11:19 AM

im sorry for your loss.

efhondakid · 01-24-2009, 01:09 PM

I lost a close friend in high school to morphine, I couldnt imagine a family member. Condolences to you and your family.

B · 01-24-2009, 01:25 PM

everyone WANTS to get clean... problem is that they CAN'T.

Celerity · 01-24-2009, 03:04 PM

I'm sorry to hear this happened. This problem is more common than you may think. The pill user is mired in chaos, misery and hopelessness that defies definition. No one is capable of understanding. Pills are a unique addiction - Because nothing leads someone to do it. It's not a drug you take when you're on top, or on the bottom. It can start from a headache, a slipped disk, knee pain. It's so easy to be caught in the net.

you or your family didn't drive him to this. And recovery is different than all other addictions.

disableddan · 01-25-2009, 01:37 PM

Sorry for your loss, I have known quite a few people with substance problems and it's always hard to know what you're supposed to do to help them. And evne when you think you have helped, sometimes they slip up. I will think of this post next time someone I know needs help. I qish the best for you and your family.

MthaFuknGreen · 01-25-2009, 01:48 PM

its nearly impossible to help.
its something they have to do on their own.
the only thing someone else could do for them is be supportive.

i know, ive been there.

capricefrk013 · 01-25-2009, 03:14 PM

Well my father will be finishing up what he has to at his shop then he will be closing his doors because it will be too hard for him to show up there knowing that my bother and his son will never walk through those doors ever again. Its just too much for him to take.

As far as my project that I was gonna do....never mind I will post that in its thread.

MthaFuknGreen · 01-25-2009, 03:48 PM

hes going to close down his business?
wow..

is he gonna sell his house too?

INJEN78 · 01-25-2009, 05:29 PM

damn man,i know its hard but he should continue on

MthaFuknGreen · 01-25-2009, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by INJEN78

damn man,i know its hard but he should continue on

thats the subtle form of what i was saying..

01-23-2009, 09:56 PM	#1
capricefrk013 is waiting for summer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NE OHIO Posts: 364 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 91 Honda Civic ED6 Rep Power: 17	Please do what I couldn't!!! If you know somebody on drugs, Please do what you can to help them out. I just had to go down to the coroners office tonight with my dad to identify my 24 year old younger brothers body. He had an addiction to pills. His choice was Oxycontin. He got caught by his & my older step brother and we thought that was a wake up call. He even told me straight up that he fucked up his life and wanted to fix it. Unfortunately I couldn't do much because of my busy schedule. He worked with our father at his shop. He picked up auto repair really quick and was pretty damn good at it. He surprised us all. He even wanted to take the ASE mechanics certification test. He felt VERY confident about it. He will be missed. I just wish I could have been there more for him after he told me he fucked up his life. I just had to share this to others who may know someone that is asking for help but aren't actually saying they need it or asking for it but hinting towards it. Thank you for taking the time to read this. __________________

01-24-2009, 10:00 AM	#13
capricefrk013 is waiting for summer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NE OHIO Posts: 364 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 91 Honda Civic ED6 Rep Power: 17	Thank you everybody for your support except for the dumb ass that posted the wrong thing. You all know who im talking about. He was in denial about it every time he was confronted. He would steal things from my dad n sell them just to get his fix. He took my dads laptop in braod daylight one at the shop and that was the last straw for my dad. He told him dont come back to work and he gave him some time to bring back the laptop but he never did and we knew he sold it. So when he got caught by his stepbrother, my dad told our little brother to bring him to the shop. So he showed up and it was a lil awkward for me to see him but I really thought he wanted to get clean until last nite. __________________

01-23-2009, 09:59 PM	#2
nootrac22 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: exeter pa Age: 33 Posts: 4,081 iTrader: 1 / 100% Ride: 04 accord ex Blog Entries: 1 Rep Power: 246	sorry for your loss.

01-23-2009, 10:16 PM	#3
austin20110 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Northern Va Age: 20 Posts: 1,274 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 96 civic coupe, 05 s2k project car with buddies Rep Power: 40	sorry for your loss man

01-23-2009, 11:02 PM	#4
dacheat ..is grounded. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: strongbadia Posts: 4,119 iTrader: 5 / 100% Ride: '84 buick (rusted) Rep Power: 464

01-23-2009, 11:05 PM	#5
B Administrator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: down in the villiage area Age: 30 Posts: 9,662 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2010 Hyundai Genesis Coupe 2.0t Track Edition, 2000 Dakota Rep Power: 689	A&E Television - Intervention Participate

01-23-2009, 11:38 PM	#6
Old$koolLude Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 90 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 87' honda prelude Rep Power: 7	sorry for your loss

01-23-2009, 11:51 PM	#7
92stoccord Big Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Salem, Ohio Age: 20 Posts: 2,270 iTrader: 1 / 100% Ride: 1997 Civic HX, 1990 CR-X, 2000 1200XLC, Gillig Phantom Rep Power: 236	Sorry about your loss my man. My old man just beat morphine. I knew he had a problem, but I really didn't know how to help him. He'd just tell me hes on it for a reason and I wouldn't understand. It's hard on everybody. I'll remember your story though if it ever enters my life again. Thanks for the motivation. You're a good man. Sorry about your brother.

01-24-2009, 12:25 AM	#8
E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: CT Age: 32 Posts: 21,256 iTrader: 1 / 100% Rep Power: 1092

01-24-2009, 12:38 AM	#9
TxChristopheru Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 30 Posts: 21 iTrader: 0 / 0% Rep Power: 0

01-24-2009, 08:46 AM	#12
INJEN78 ¿GANGSTA GREMLIN? Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: CT(860) VT(802) Age: 21 Posts: 8,418 iTrader: 7 / 100% Ride: 91 CRX si Rep Power: 244	sorry for your loss,keep your head up,and dont fall into his cycle pills seem to be the huge drug of choice lately

01-24-2009, 10:09 AM	#14
phyregod !!YTINASNI Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Central Texas Age: 30 Posts: 9,151 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: '06 Element , '07 CBR 1000rr, '91 CRX, '98 jeep GC 4x4 Blog Entries: 2 Rep Power: 509	Sorry man. Maybe your wakeup call will help others. Way to go posting it in this style.

01-24-2009, 10:58 AM	#15
capricefrk013 is waiting for summer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NE OHIO Posts: 364 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 91 Honda Civic ED6 Rep Power: 17	Thank you sir.

01-24-2009, 11:19 AM	#16
sufikation Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: fruitland, id Age: 27 Posts: 608 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 95 civic sedan ex (dd), 92 caged civic hb (project) Rep Power: 30	im sorry for your loss.

01-24-2009, 01:09 PM	#17
efhondakid My name is Byron. Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Akron-Canton, Ohio Age: 21 Posts: 5,953 iTrader: 2 / 100% Ride: 89' DX Hatch w/B16 Rep Power: 355	I lost a close friend in high school to morphine, I couldnt imagine a family member. Condolences to you and your family.

01-24-2009, 01:25 PM	#18
B Administrator Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: down in the villiage area Age: 30 Posts: 9,662 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 2010 Hyundai Genesis Coupe 2.0t Track Edition, 2000 Dakota Rep Power: 689	everyone WANTS to get clean... problem is that they CAN'T.

01-25-2009, 01:37 PM	#20
disableddan Crazy Insane Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Edmonton Canada, Eh? Posts: 367 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 1990 HB (K.I.A.), 2001 Coupe Rep Power: 22	Sorry for your loss, I have known quite a few people with substance problems and it's always hard to know what you're supposed to do to help them. And evne when you think you have helped, sometimes they slip up. I will think of this post next time someone I know needs help. I qish the best for you and your family.

01-25-2009, 01:48 PM	#21
MthaFuknGreen Green on the scene. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Lodi, CA Age: 20 Posts: 3,166 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: Fuckin Prelude Si 2.1l 1990 Rep Power: 67	its nearly impossible to help. its something they have to do on their own. the only thing someone else could do for them is be supportive. i know, ive been there.

01-25-2009, 03:14 PM	#22
capricefrk013 is waiting for summer Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NE OHIO Posts: 364 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: 91 Honda Civic ED6 Rep Power: 17	Well my father will be finishing up what he has to at his shop then he will be closing his doors because it will be too hard for him to show up there knowing that my bother and his son will never walk through those doors ever again. Its just too much for him to take. As far as my project that I was gonna do....never mind I will post that in its thread.

01-25-2009, 03:48 PM	#23
MthaFuknGreen Green on the scene. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Lodi, CA Age: 20 Posts: 3,166 iTrader: 0 / 0% Ride: Fuckin Prelude Si 2.1l 1990 Rep Power: 67	hes going to close down his business? wow.. is he gonna sell his house too?

01-25-2009, 05:29 PM	#24
INJEN78 ¿GANGSTA GREMLIN? Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: CT(860) VT(802) Age: 21 Posts: 8,418 iTrader: 7 / 100% Ride: 91 CRX si Rep Power: 244	damn man,i know its hard but he should continue on

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