<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(reckedracing @ Mar 31 2006, 10:46 AM)
Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>what happens when she trusts you and you trust her and then she takes advantage of your trust?[/b][/quote]Fuck her life up and leave.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(George777 @ Mar 31 2006, 05:34 PM)
Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>Fuck the spying...If you can't trust them to tell you what's going on, you can't trust them in a relationship...just grow a set and get rid of em...[/b][/quote]PREACH IT BROTHA MAN!!!
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Black Widow g2 @ Apr 2 2006, 02:25 PM)
Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>that's all chemical now. they say that lovely feeling of 'falling' and being 'in love' is helped out by chemicals in the brain... triggered by the other person.problem is... that only lasts up to 2 years. so, either way, you'll never 'be in love' forever. it's about how you create that feeling for yourself and understand that you can't just hook em, and expect to keep that feeling forever.the problem is after that, some people just think it's not worth it anymore[/b][/quote]I have read something about that actually and from what I have read..... its basically bullshit. The interviewed people were about as shallow as a sidewalk anyway... the ONE guy that off set the entire study was... ready...... a delivery driver for a local pizza place.... he was 21.... [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/laugh.gif[/img]
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(adnoh @ Apr 2 2006, 08:34 PM)
Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>If you have a hunch that your girlfriend/boyfriend is cheating, then fuck yes, I would COMPLETELY support spying. Because if you don't act on it, it's YOUR fault. If your gf/bf has you in a position where you are going to second guess your gut instinct, then it's obvious who wears the pants.
Lets go with this analogy....
Would you perhaps, check under the hood of a used car when you buy it? Maybe even request a Carfax? Hell, even take it to a mechanic to get it checked out? Of course you would, you do your homework and make an intellegent, educated decision. You don't listen to the salesguy while he blows smoke up your ass trying to get the sale.
Moral: Women are no diffrent (or men for that matter). Do your homework, and make educated decisions. If you think they're being unfaithful than proove it. There is a multitude of resources to find the information you need. Bad things happen to good people ALL the time. What makes people so confident that they think that it would NEVER happen to them? WAKE THE FUCK UP! The fact is that you have NO control over what you significant other does, as much as most people think they do. That is reality.
Trust you ask? Let me ask you guys a question: who do you trust 100%? Your wife/husband? gf/bf? Old friends? Family?
Well, here's my breakdown:
Family 100%
Old guy friends 100%
Wife 80%
Why does the wife only get 80% ?
Because that is ALL the trust I can give her, or any girl that is not family. She gets all the trust I can give, and that is alot because I do love her very much. But relying back to the "if there's no trust, theres no relationship thing" is bullshit. I do trust my wife, with all 80% that I can give. Only blood and trusted guy friends of many years get my full trust.
I think it all boils down to this:
If you think that your gf/bf is cheating and you don't do anything to find out, then you're stupid and too fucking scared of what you might find out.
And just to clear something up, I AM a romantic. I believe very strongly in love and my relationship. But I also dont turn a blind eye to human nature. I love my wife, and she cheated on me. I forgave her (didn't forget), and we are extremely happy now.
[/b][/quote]If you think he or she is cheating.... the relationship is already over. However 80% is still some trust. So I still agree with you... but if you didnt trust your current relationship AT ALL it would not exist.
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