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Really? How do you expect me to take you seriously when you say shit like that? We both know that taco bell is the LAST place you go, not the first. Nothing turns a girl on more than a five layer burrito and some cinnamon twists.

sorry, just trying to be comedic relief.

don't you have a motorcycle? throw some sandwiches, chips, and some water in a
backpack and go for a ride.

go to a minor league baseball game. they are cheap, fun and not a lot of people go.

you can take one of those couples cooking lessons. those are always fun.

you are in florida, maybe you can plan a day trip fishing.

how big is your city and what day is your date?
 
Mini-golf. Outdoors. You can talk the whole time. She'll probably suck at it. You might or at least can pretend to suck at it. Makes for a more comfortable environment. I even like to make a wager with the girl about who is going to win, then I make sure we tie (sometimes difficult), or I lose. Hasn't failed me yet.
Sounds pretty pro. Definitely will consider.

Beach Trip + Car full of booze. Park w/in walking distance to the beach and bring plenty of ice. I am sure FL has plenty of beaches . . if you live close to a beach drive (out of town) to a further one :)

In Springfield MA a good date spot is the Smith & Wesson factory . . can shoot a variety of handguns as long as you pay for the ammo. No firearms id needed.

Cemetery Picnic is the best idea in the thread. Be sure to go at night.
Don't want to shoot for getting hammered in this situation, but driving to a different beach is something I've done quite a few times. Good call on that, it's on the list. She knows I have guns, but she isn't interested in shooting them lol.

This statement indicates to me that you could probably do pretty much anything and have a good time.

My best dates have always been going to a metro area, eating food, and walking around talking the whole time. This is what I did with my wife on our first "date".

If you are good together it will be pure synergy. If it isn't then move on I guess.
Exactly what I'm hoping for. To turn anything into an awesome time and decipher whether or not she's dating material.

Yeah definitely with undr8d.

I typically will only "date" a chick that I can get a beer/coffee with and literally talk to for a couple hours.




My girl now, we used to meet up for coffee every saturday for a few months before we started "dating" again and definitely had the ability to bullshit for a long time. I don't live near her so I talk to her every day on the phone and typically over the last 7-8 months, (5dating) haven't lost that bullshitting ability. Something I crave when I date.
:werd:

The girlfriend read through the thread and suggested bowling and dinner. More or less along the same line as the mini golf suggestion. Another idea was pack a lunch/dinner and head to the beach to watch a sunset.
On the list, thanks. The sunset thing is a little risque, though. I think that's a bit sensitive(for lack of a better word) considering the circumstances. Although, she was really anxious to know about where I was gonna take her. That's the main reason why I want something solid with a backup plan.

You live in FL? There must be 1 day cruises from Miami and Ft Lauderdale to the Bahamas if you have any kind of money, should be cheap, just an idea.
Fucking bitchin' idea.

Snorkeling trips rock . . ocean fishing trip . . . something dope she doesnt usually get to do.

Do the snorkeling trip, bring an underwater disposable cam, let the fish do the rest :p
On the list.

sorry, just trying to be comedic relief.

don't you have a motorcycle? throw some sandwiches, chips, and some water in a
backpack and go for a ride.

go to a minor league baseball game. they are cheap, fun and not a lot of people go.

you can take one of those couples cooking lessons. those are always fun.

you are in florida, maybe you can plan a day trip fishing.

how big is your city and what day is your date?
No no, I was being totally sarcastic, but I see now it lacked a smiley face lol. I meant taco bell is how you end the night, not start it(seeing as it was the first on your list). I chuckled, that's why I repped.

My actual town has nothing, but the next one over has simple things like bowling and shit. I'm about 30-45 min from the West Palm area, which has tons of shit, so I can make things like that happen.

I do have a bike, but I haven't even asked her to go for a ride. I like to keep things like guitars and motorcycles away from a girl I see potential in at the start. Sometimes one of them gives you an unfair advantage at the start that fades quickly. I wanna set the hook all by myself before sinking it ^_^ No set day because my schedule went nuts for a couple days, but I'll set one tomorrow probably.

I dig the fishing idea, I could probably use my bro's boat. On the list. Might have only a day to plan once I know the date, but I'll make it all work somehow.
 
dude go bowling. every chick that i have taken bowling has loved it its gonna be fun for the both of you cuz no matter what its always fun to bowl.
 
Yeah, my lazy ass waited too long. When I called her today, she wanted to do something tonight. Ended up going to the movies and then walking around the beach for a few hours. Just got home from dropping her off.

Man, I'm fucking rusty. I denied multiple hints to go in for a kiss and she ended up having to make it so blatant that I couldn't miss. Hell, she even started leaning in for it before me. It's so much easier when you don't care about what they have to say.
 
keeping it nice and awkward. thats how i always did things. worked wonders for me.
 
movies = worst date ever. you can't talk/get to know anyone.
and snorkelling is the same deal... can't really chat with an airtank/snorkel on
 
eh, at least he followed up with a walk on the beach.
i would have gone to dinner, then the beach, no movies, but thats just me.
 
keeping it nice and awkward. thats how i always did things. worked wonders for me.
Yeah, sometimes it can be pulled off with great success. I can't help but laugh at myself looking back.

could be a good thing, now she thinks you are sensitive and shy. lol.
lets hope thats what she likes.
Yup. I don't care what she thinks, long as she likes it lol.

movies = worst date ever. you can't talk/get to know anyone.
and snorkelling is the same deal... can't really chat with an airtank/snorkel on
As I said in the op, movies definitely make for shitty dates when you're trying to get to know each other, but she wanted to see elm street, so I figured what the hell. The arm rest folds up in this theatre, so we made ourselves comfortable and were commenting throughout the whole thing. Before the bashing comes, there were 2 other people in the movie and they couldn't hear us. We weren't ruining it for anyone lol. For a movie, it was the best it could be.

Now diving would be down right awesome imo. 1-2 hours of that in the early afternoon to kickoff the rest of your evening. It just puts a smile on your face because it's so fun. Now if you made an entire date out of just a movie or diving, yeah. That would blow.

eh, at least he followed up with a walk on the beach.
i would have gone to dinner, then the beach, no movies, but thats just me.
Yeah, movies was not my choice by any means, but I made the best out of it. Made up for lost time by splitting a milkshake and heading to the beach.

Ok, so how high school does this sound? I was filthy from working around the house when I talked to her, so I had to rush getting cleaned up and ready so we could make the movie. She says for me to meet her at Panera(which is barely over a 5 minute drive), but I ended up zoning out and driving to Atlanta Bread Co. 15+ min away. Already late for the movie, she ends up driving to me. She gets in my car and while driving she says "Wow, you're speeding" as I'm doing 60 on a 6 lane highway. Totally acceptable speed. Well, right where the limit drops down to a 40, there's a speed trap. Bam, fucking speeding ticket. Even later now obviously, but we're laughing about it. Get to the movies and the fucking 16 year old prick asks us for our ID. Well, I didn't put mine back in my wallet when the cop handed it back. Fuck me. I showed him my concealed weapon's license, a class of 2006 high school ID, insurance cards(medical and car)... He wouldn't accept of them. I don't exactly have a baby face, either. Barely kept my cool by calling him a "waste of fucking space". Let it roll off, walked all the way back to my car and finally got in. So don't worry, I definitely gave us something to talk.
 
Since when is a CCW not considered a legit form of ID? It's government issued, and it's been recognized any place that I've ever gone...

At least the chick got to see more than the typical front most people put on for a first date. Random things like what you went through keep things interesting.

Good luck with it, man.
 
Yeah, sometimes it can be pulled off with great success. I can't help but laugh at myself looking back.

Bam, fucking speeding ticket. Even later now obviously, but we're laughing about it. Get to the movies and the fucking 16 year old prick asks us for our ID. Well, I didn't put mine back in my wallet when the cop handed it back. Fuck me. I showed him my concealed weapon's license, a class of 2006 high school ID, insurance cards(medical and car)... He wouldn't accept of them. I don't exactly have a baby face, either. Barely kept my cool by calling him a "waste of fucking space". Let it roll off, walked all the way back to my car and finally got in. So don't worry, I definitely gave us something to talk.

who's saying she didn't get to learn about him by him being shy?

she learned that you can't be on time, like to speed, carry guns, and cuss at stupid people people.

great first impression. :thumbsup: lol
 
Ya I dig it. I would be all over that shit if I were some hot young snizz.

Also, TTIWWOP
 

Back Door Beauty??? OMG if she is down for that....no need for anything and taco bell is good to go! Liquor and porn wont be needed!

But if she isn't down for that....I like bowling and dinner. Its fun...she can see you bowling talent (or lack there of) and you guys can have fun with it all. You'll know if you guys hit it off...if it doesn't....you suddenly came down with rot-gut and take her ass home. But if you are having fun....dinner will just help you guys get to know one another better.
 
you know that you only got that speeding ticket because she pointed out the fact that you were speeding.
if she hadnt said anything, it never would have happened.



who's saying she didn't get to learn about him by him being shy?

she learned that you can't be on time, like to speed, carry guns, and cuss at stupid people people.

great first impression. :thumbsup: lol

lol, rep.
 
Since when is a CCW not considered a legit form of ID? It's government issued, and it's been recognized any place that I've ever gone...

At least the chick got to see more than the typical front most people put on for a first date. Random things like what you went through keep things interesting.

Good luck with it, man.
What I said about the permit. Haha, thanks man. I appreciate your enthusiasm. You do speak the truth, though. Sure don't put up some bs front.

who's saying she didn't get to learn about him by him being shy?

she learned that you can't be on time, like to speed, carry guns, and cuss at stupid people people.

great first impression. :thumbsup: lol
Hahaha, you prick. You're fucking spot on, though. I'm typically kind and laid back, but she got to see it all lol. She took it really well and laughed about everything. Even straight in the ticket holder's face. That's when she really impressed me.

Ya I dig it. I would be all over that shit if I were some hot young snizz.

Also, TTIWWOP
Soon as I can get a damn picture, it'll be up. I'm not a camera guy and she doesn't have facebook or anything that I know of. Not the typical girl I've taken out for sure. She grew up in France, is a natural redhead, and a bit of a tomboy. Totally odd, but hot.

Back Door Beauty??? OMG if she is down for that....no need for anything and taco bell is good to go! Liquor and porn wont be needed!

But if she isn't down for that....I like bowling and dinner. Its fun...she can see you bowling talent (or lack there of) and you guys can have fun with it all. You'll know if you guys hit it off...if it doesn't....you suddenly came down with rot-gut and take her ass home. But if you are having fun....dinner will just help you guys get to know one another better.
Bowling and anal... I like it.

you know that you only got that speeding ticket because she pointed out the fact that you were speeding.
if she hadnt said anything, it never would have happened.
Yeah, I was thinking it. 60 is nothing on that road, but I expect nothing less from small town cops.

Here is my current prediction: We'll hang out 2 times a week to bs and do the deed. Maybe more often, it depends how much I ignore her. Ask two times, get it once. Ask zero times and get it twice. After a little bit of that, she'll probably bring something up about a casual yet faithful friends with benefits thing. She seems like she wants to be with me, but with as little commitment as possible. Seems kind of awesome, actually. She's fairly mature, but there's no doubt about her being eighteen. It may even die off before it starts. We'll see.
 
Wait. You were stressing about a first date, and already doing the deed?
Did I miss something here?
 
Wait. You were stressing about a first date, and already doing the deed?
Did I miss something here?
Nah, she hasn't ordered the tube steak yet. I meant now that we've spent time together on a level other than just friends, that's my near future prediction based on the impression. Been a busy weekend, so I haven't seen her and hardly talked to her since.
Ya he fucks first and asks questions later
:lmao: I can just picture that punch line at the end of a movie trailer. A movie I would watch at that.
 
I'll tell ya what man. Always keep the fish baiting.






fucking talk it up. Not much. Disappear for a bit, but reappear enough to keep her interest piqued in you. Otherwise, its happened to me before. Chicka meets another homie or goes on date with other dude, and you're out. he's in. Chicks got ADD and you gotta keep that attention held. Unless she's blowing you up, then you gotta play hard to get.


It's all a fucking mind game man. And if you win, you win. And by win. You know what i mean. You fucking WIN.
 
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