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Baby Mamma Drama!

Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by EkSivik_99, Apr 16, 2008.

  1. EkSivik_99

    EkSivik_99 Yea Ho FO SHo

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    Any one else out here not get along with their babies mom? its not like i dont get along with her but feels like shes just out to make my life hell. she knew from the begining we werent going to be together. yet she trys so hard and always wants to see me. to top it off shes engaged does'nt make any sence. hes away over seas, and shes tryn to hook up with me. always askn me to come over sayn shes wants to do the dirty deed. i dont know what to do with this chick. when she dont get her way she uses my son to get back at me. she hates when i party she drives by where ever she hears im at, and you ask how i know this well her damn lights flicker when she drives. she denies it of course but theres only one caviler in my town thats white and lights flicker. dededeee:whatafucktard:. she loves telln girls not get with me, she calls me names, puts me down, talks shit, then expects me to sleep with her. i dono just a lil rant just tired of her bullshit.
     
  2. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    direct deposit your child support and move out of the state.
     
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    BrutalB83 Brutal Moderator Moderator VIP

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    :werd:

    Pay your child support, and be there for your kid, but other than that just don't have anything to do with her. It's clear that she has issues, so you're just asking for trouble and more drama by continuing to associate with her...
     
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    nootrac22 Well-Known Member VIP

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    and next time PIITB
     
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    BrutalB83 Brutal Moderator Moderator VIP

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    :lmao:

    Hilarious and true...
     
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    nootrac22 Well-Known Member VIP

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    you could do like I did, and get custody of your child. then take her to court for child support. only cost me between 10-15k
     
  7. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    a2m FTMFW!!! no babies there. ^_^
     
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    92civicb18b1 The Trisexual

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    When I tried that, I lost, I spent almost 10k and then ended up signing away my rights. It was for the best though.
     
  9. dacheat

    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    i am the product of a similar arrangement. worked out ok for me. :shrug:
     
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    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    you has teh kidz?
     
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    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    no i was the kid. ;) and maybe because of how that all worked out, i'm sans kids and single in my 30s with no baby drama. FTMFW.
     
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    BrutalB83 Brutal Moderator Moderator VIP

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    Nah, I think she's saying that she was the kid...
     
  13. dacheat

    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    right. dad was behind on support, mom had him by the nuts in court, he signed me off to get outta the support. i was about 5 when all that became official. so as far as i remember/was concerned, dad was just this guy that did way too many drugs and i didn't really have to spend much time with. he played/plays a mean guitar though.
     
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    TurboMirage YEEAAAHHH VIP

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    maybe you should step away from her and your child, considering hes "the swimmer that got away"

    toolshed.
     
  15. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    where were you when i was single?
     
  16. dacheat

    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    i'm no hot asian ;).

    so anyway back on topic - hey dood, you need to be in your baby's life? if so you have to cope with her strangeness. otherwise, i'd advise checking back in with the kid when he's 5+ and can remember you. maybe she'll have mellowed by then too.
     
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    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    what does that have to do with anything? :shrug:

    if you bounce, bounce forever. if you are going to be there, be there now. try to be the reason the kid isn't fucked up rather than being the reason he is.
     
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    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    i can see your reasoning here, my thoughts are that the baby mama is obviously into playing games. this guy can not win right now, she holds the cards.

    if he wants to have a relationship with his son later, he can try to start one up with the son at that point, instead of having to work so much with the baby mama just to see him.

    buuuut if he's ok with just letting the kid and mom go do their own thing and he do his for the long haul, i'm with everyone above - walk away now. fulfill whatever your legal obligations are and mooooove on.

    at this point continuing to enable the baby mama to play her games is not helping anything. and whatever age the kid is now, it's only going to get worse if he grows up in this unhealthy triangle.

    cliffs: try nootrac's custody move, or try 92civic's give-up-the-rights move (with the option of letting him know you're around later if he wants to get to know you), or continue to put up with her crap.

    personal note: i don't think my dad's interest in being a part of my life later on did anything to fuck me up, and i don't have any resentment for his giving up his rights earlier on (even though mom talked shit about him pretty regular). i know the story from his side, i'm good with it. i also get to control how much of a part of my life he is, because yeah, he gave up his rights to me in more ways than one back in the day. odds are good this kid could have the same net result.
     
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    nootrac22 Well-Known Member VIP

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    IMO if she's playing games take it to court. If you pay child support you should also have a custody agreement, if not you're an idiot. Take it to court get a custody agreement, from the court. Then if she plays games, you can have her ass hauled in front of the judge. They don't tollerate that bs at all. But, that means you have to step up to the plate big time, and be a man about it.
     
  20. INJEN78

    INJEN78 HS LEGEND

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    basically dude,,(this is my .02) deal with her bullshit and be there for the kid,,,my father was in and out of my life up until a couple months before i turned 18(then i havent heard from him since(im almost 20)he missed my graduation,all the christmas',birthdays and whatever..it sucks knowing the dad didnt care enough


    or you need to be out of their lives completely,pay the C.S and let it be..
    or you could go for custody and tell her to fuck off,,

    but as everyone else said next time PIITB...
     
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