So the other day I met up with some of my friends mainly because my good friend is moving shortly from TX to MT and of course I want to hang with him before he leaves. Well to shorten it up a little bit... he "has to talk to me" so he winds up bawling his eyes out about how he doesnt want to leave TX to go back to MT but hes doing it to better himself (he got a job offer with his dad for like $27 per hour) because he parties WAY too much. I figured that just came with his job (he does club promotions) thus I never thought twice about dating this guy. Then comes the he says that the reason he's moving to MT to get his life straight is because he wants to grow up (he's 23) and one day have a family and make a decent living & slow down and enjoy life. He continues on saying that he really would like that to be with me. :shock: WTF!!!! Talk about totally blind sided. I had no idea what to say, thank God he understood that because all I got out was "wow, I definitely didnt see that coming." then an "Alriiight, well..." & I shortly departed after that. This shit has been on my mind ever since and last night he called and gave me the exact date that he was leaving, and then presented me with the option of moving to MT with him. I have no idea what to say to him, I cant blow him off he's been one of my good friends and I like him but didnt like the fact that he was a club promotor... MIXED FEELINGS SUCK either way what do I tell him? Im definitely not going to MT!!!