A lightweight flywheel is not so much about gaining power as being able to pull the power from your engine better. If you are driving your car correctly (i.e. throttle blipping the downshifts, rev matching, etc.) then you will enjoy being able to better (by better read faster) modulate your RPM's. Of course its not going to add substantial power, and nothing short of forced induction is going to drop seconds off at the track. I say get the lightweight flywheel put in while your changing out the clutch, and go ahead and put a good stage 1 in there, because odds are your going to be adding the power before your going to want to pull your transmission out again.
Everyone on here says it and they are right. Dont try and save money by buying things you dont want. Build towards a goal... period.