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Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by austin20110, Mar 22, 2009.

  1. austin20110

    austin20110 New Member

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    I'm going to be a daddy guys!
    Not really a planned baby seeing as I'm 18 and she is 22 but we are going to try and make things work now. She said she didnt want me to be a part of the babys life at all when she first told me, which kinda excited me but now im excited to be having a baby. Cant decide if I'm going to get a 2nd job or go into the army. Just my little rant for the day. O and she is about a month pregnant.
     
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    D16Civic Matt

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    congrats and good luck

    your profile says you're 19 btw.
     
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    Drake Well-Known Member VIP

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    Congrats buddy. But take it from me, you two need to talk about every little problem you two have or may have in the future. And you need to understand and realize that while your girlfriend has been able to go out and hit the clubs and get sauced with her friends the chances of you being able to do that are next to zero. As for joining the military or getting a second job. If you have always wanted to enlist and your girlfriend has been aware of that fact then I would recommend going with the second job. Enlisting for any other reason outside of wanting to honestly serve your country is going to suck donkey ass for you.

    And take it from me, I turned 20 the week before my son was born.
     
  4. austin20110

    austin20110 New Member

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    O no dude I dont want it lol. She doesnt want me to be a part of it, shes not even my girlfriend really she was just a girl i messed with for a while.
     
  5. E_SolSi

    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    idiot
     
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    austin20110 New Member

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    thanks because that was totally needed
     
  7. invisibledemon

    invisibledemon Bored Moderator VIP

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    so you are excited that you are going to be a father, but only bc you arent going to have to have anything to do with the child?
     
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    No I'm excited im going to be a dad just scared I guess cuz we dont know how we are going to make things work.
     
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    uhm...
    she wants you to not be involved with this baby at all... and you're excited about it?

    sounds like she just wants to tax your paycheck for 18 years and wants nothing else to do with you
     
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    Z6CRX übber ɐɾuıu etarip

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    Some women are whores and basically get pregnant, then try to push the father away, then later come after them for money. I've seen it happen so many times. There's some legalities to this, but it really depends if you are on the birth certificate or not.
     
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    dacheat ..is grounded.

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    Airjockie Watanabe Whore!!!

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    paternity test....
     
  13. BigJ

    BigJ I'm just about that action Boss. VIP

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    Hmmmm.

    That's cool that you're excited.....
     
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    MthaFuknGreen Green on the scene.

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    or is no one else in your town into fat chicks?
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    what would you prefer that i said?

    you are 18 (or 19?)
    you knocked up some 22 year old chick you were just fucking on the side
    by your own admissions you dont want the child
    the fact that you are scrambling for a second job or thinking of military service, tells me that you are not financially prepared to support a child
    its plainly obvious that you are not emotionally prepared to support a child
    and the pregnant chick doesnt want you in the child's life (sperm donor?)

    your careless indiscretions are going to bring yet another an unwanted unplanned for child into the world.

    somehow " :thumbsup: congratulations" just doesnt seem to fit this situation



    :slap: idiot
     
  17. MthaFuknGreen

    MthaFuknGreen Green on the scene.

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    i have to, say i agree.
     
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    Not without appropriate mystical Celerity "Is he joking or isn't he?" Humor applied.

    Allow me :


    Congratulations !
     
  19. invisibledemon

    invisibledemon Bored Moderator VIP

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    ok, this thread is all kinds of retarded, maybe you should start over, bc so far i have this:

    shes prego,
    she doesnt want you to have anything to do with the child
    your excited bc of this child
    yet you're glad that you wont have to have anything to do with it
    but you're looking into a second job or military to support the child that you are going to have no involvement with
    even though you are going to have no involvement with said child you want to figure how to work things out with the carrier of said child to be involved with it
    but you arent going to have anything to do with the kid?

    im so fucking lost.
     
  20. MthaFuknGreen

    MthaFuknGreen Green on the scene.

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    i think the most important thing to notice is how he said "when she first told me" in the first post.
    they are going to try to work things out i guess.

    its kinda funny if you think about it.. like really, think about it austin.
    you will be tied to this woman for at least 18 years.
    she will probably end up taking everything from you one way or another.
    you cant just say "fuck this" one day and be done with it.
    the way people seem to get pregnant unexpectedly so often has spawned my initial "no big deal" way of looking at it. but if you really think about it, its a fucking life changing occurrence that too many people share.
     
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