Ok, the 7/8's is plenty good for stopping whatever brakes you have, BUT, since it takes a little longer (more pedal travel to fill) the chances that in a clutch situation where you have to step on the brakes in an emergency the chances of the wheels locking up are greater, since it is filling more towards the end of the arm travel. Does that make sense?
I am using the 7/8 right now, and it still bites like a maniac, but if you want a MC and booster that will bolt right into your car, look at the RS MC (or the Del Sol vtec one) on a GSR booster. The RS MC has the line fittings in the same place as you Civic, but as you mentioned above the bolt pattern is opposite of the Civics, so you need the booster to fit.