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grow up time??

Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by sufikation, Jul 19, 2008.

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  1. sufikation

    sufikation Active Member

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    so thats a bit freaky for me. trying to be a grown up is a pain...i dont dig it. now that i have a family to take care of and am going back to school its gotten all to real. im in school...but why, i dont know what i want to do. ive got a house now...and holy hell does upkeep on a house cut into your life. and now...im going to give up my one last vice, my last escape. i dont care to say what it is but i have to give it up or im gonna flunk school and go through life in a purple haze (hint). but anyways...i was just shocked at how overwhelming this can be and needed to get it out...ill be quite now. peace. }=)
     
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    totalburnout Well-Known Member VIP

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    You're twenty-five... giving up weed shouldn't be a big deal. Look deep inside if life is that pathetic.
     
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    D16Civic Matt

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    Good luck man, I gave up on the weed and serious partying at 25, when my son was born. At some point in life you have to re-think your priorities. Don't worry about what you want to be, just get all the requirements done and go from there. As has been said on here before, some jobs you will find only require that you have a degree, any degree, to qualify for, so it doesn't so much matter. I work/ed with guys that were still getting high every day, and they were middle aged cats. Nothing wrong with it, and it's a personal choice, I just think by 25ish enough is enough.
     
  4. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    I have stopped too, possibly forever. Trying to get "grow-ed up" jobs I don't want to miss out because of a piss test. If it's possible once I have a real job I may indulge but many of what I'm applying for are Federal jobs with random testing and I'm definitely not messing with that.
     
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    You are only 25 which means when you are done with school you will still have years and years to do things. If you start a career and dont like it, hey you will still be in your 20's so try something else. School is mainly to prove that you can finish something that you start. It is hard to graduate from college and people look at a degree as an accomplishment, no matter what is in. I just graduated in november last year. It took me ten years (money issues), but I finished and I feel great. On the other subject of the vice. You have a kid now and you should be concerned with what could happen to you if you are caught with "something". Always be there for your kid you know.
     
  6. invisibledemon

    invisibledemon Bored Moderator VIP

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    wait... your 25 and just now having to grow up?

    consider yourself lucky, stop whining.
    if pot is your only vice, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with your family.
     
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    thanks for the possitive advice everyone. and a vice is a vice no matter what age, no matter what your relationship is with anyone...shit happens. anyways...im ok with growing up, it just snuck up on me good. so ya...i wont "whine" anymore. peace. }=|
     
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    INJEN78 HS LEGEND

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    fuck growing up...live your life..
    just make sure you live it how you want,and not how anybody else wants,,
    well atleast thats what im doing..
     
  9. Slow&Delirious

    Slow&Delirious isn't fast or furious

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    at least its weed you are quitting & not anything harder. good luck with it tho
     
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    D16Civic Matt

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    At 19 you can do whatever the fuck you want. You haven't even started your life yet.
     
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    Its hard not to smoke living in No. Cali.
     
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    INJEN78 HS LEGEND

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    while i agree with you,to a certain extent,i am 19,age of starting your life is 18,im damn near 20,ive got 2 years in the books,and i hate it,i wish i could go back to being 16,and only worrying about puttin gas in my car
     
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    TurboMirage YEEAAAHHH VIP

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    i dont want to grow up. im a toys r us kid.
     
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    Well... the HS advice didn't disappoint this time.

    Good for you, I've been clean for years now, and I'm LOVING life . I do the things I always wanted to do, realising how boring and completely wasteful it is to do the partying thing.

    Good luck, and if you need to talk, feel free to PM me.
     
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    once again ty for all the POSITIVE support...today was a full sober day. i felt productive and kept active all day. i dont think its gonna be as hard as i thought or as bad. }=)
     
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    jimboburgess Go fast, Go Cheap

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    sufikation Active Member

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    LOL !! thats just what i need. }=)
     
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    So much for that hu bro..We smoked for 3 days there..I will quit with ya..When i get back from burns there will be no more smoken..GL bro..Cya soon..KOV
     
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    Aleaf.CRX Hates Cunts!

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    Yeah, shouldn't be too bad. I've had to A LOT of growing up in the last year or so. But, you know, since you live close by, I can actually say this, if you wanna chill and do something BESIDES smoke, I'm down. I don't smoke weed, hardly ever drink, and am actually quitting smoking cigarettes and caffeine lol. Just PM if you ever need a quick getaway to B-town.
     
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    Dont do it bro..Shes drama on the Forums, has to be drama in RL..lol Cya when i get home bro..GOt some new and cool stuff to show ya..WOOT..Kov
     
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