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Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by TWAN, Oct 7, 2005.

  1. TWAN

    TWAN Senior Member

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    So heres the deal,

    back this summer, one of my best friends (whom i have been friends with since we were 10 yrs old) decided that he wanted to more or less steal my g/f from me. like anybody else i know i told both of them to go fuck themselves, and was done with it.

    fast-foward to yesterday, i forgot my phone at home, and when i got home last night... there was 2 missed calls from him, and 3 text messages. He said that he had a serious problem and needed my help. at first i was just going to ignore it, but my curiosity got the better of me and i asked him what he needed. he wouldnt answer his phone... but was responding with text messages. he says that he is having some real issues, and wanted to kill himself. but he wouldnt talk to me any further on it.

    so here is my dellima: I really dont like the guy, and have a ton of animosity towards him. but at the same time i dont want him, or anybody that i know to do somthing stupid like kill themselves, when i could have prevented it. i dont want to have to live with that.

    im completely torn as to what to do. any advice would be helpful
     
  2. formby

    formby learning in progress

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    talk to him and/or his family...and let it go....if he kills himself....its not your fault...sorry to hear that he has put you in this situation
     
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    dveit Well-Known Member VIP

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    Easy solution: Provide the razor blades. He fucked you over man.
     
  4. pissedoffsol

    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    fuck him. offing him self will do the world a favor.

    hes' a fuck up.
    and now hes starting to realize it

    and he wants to take the pussy way out of it.

    let him be a pussy
     
  5. VTECin5th

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    Yea tell him to quit being a bitch.
    He fucked you over, if he kills himself, which would suck, don't let it ride on your mind.
    You can't prevent stupidity.
    The girl probly left him, and blah blah.
    I'd talk to him thru txt, if he doesn't want to tell you what's up, fuck it.
     
  6. BodyDroppedNikes

    BodyDroppedNikes ...PENDEJO.... VIP

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    tell him to go seek a therapist
     
  7. TWAN

    TWAN Senior Member

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    That was my first thought...

    i have already had one guy that i grew up with kill himself... on new years of this year to be exact. nobody knows why to this day. no note, nothing. and i saw what it did to everyone that knew him. his family and friends. i dont want to ever have to deal with that ever again.
     
  8. Celerity

    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    Ignore him. Completely.

    Lemme tell ya, if some of the people that fucked me like that in the past came back - even messaged me "hi" I would go BALLISTIC. It's bad enough that 4 weeks ago I saw my friend (Who took my gf) on the streets, and I blacked out from the anger. My blood pressure still hasn't settled.


    I started thinking of ways to kill him, to come out of his woods at night, and take him down with a silenced .22. No one would find him for days.

    Anyway, I'm off track - Ignore him. We all have to deal with our own problems, Karma kid.

    Actually, no ... no no no... If you want advice on the topic,


    Look no further than Eric Cartman. WWECD ?

    First, he would behave very sincere in his response "Oh, What seems to be the problem?" Then he would confide everything - And pretend to be very concerned.

    He would ask the kid to join him to talk about it in a restaurant or somewhere public. And when they got together, Eric would load the restaurant with planted people who would listen in, and then offer their advice one by one... by laughing

    To wrap it up, Eric would write out a Sympathy card and tape a razor blade to it., Then taste the kid's tears and laugh his ass off.


    I believe in the Dao of Cartman.
     
  9. infamouz

    infamouz Senior Member

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    regardless if you just let him go, you'll almost always get the guilt trip, and you'll feel like shit. Try to change his mind as soon as possible. Or just hire an escort to put him on cloud 9, shit i bet he wouldnt think about killing himself then. Good luck with whatever you do.
     
  10. totalburnout

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    People need hope to live, if you're able and willing to provide that to this guy, then by all means go ahead and do so.

    Right now he's in the stage where he's crying out for attention, he's trying to find hope, a reaction from you, something to live for, some sort of hope.
     
  11. pissedoffsol

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    and he fucked your g/f.

    fuck him.
     
  12. TWAN

    TWAN Senior Member

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    YA... i know that, dick
     
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    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    i was just finishing up the post above me.

    what it comes down to it, he lost anything he had when he made the dick move.

    so the hell with him. let him cry a river about oh im going to kill myself.... he probabyl won't do it anyway...
     
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    I sure hope not...

    i think at the very least i am going to call and talk to his parents... im pretty sure that they are completely in the dark about everything that has gone on between him and me... maybe they can get him some help
     
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    phyregod !!YTINASNI

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    Wow. post it at honda swap and listen to all of the good advise that spews forth.

    You can't stand by while he kills himself. That would fuck you up.

    On the other hand, He fucked you over on a minor thing.. well, minor in comparison. Alert his family. Alert the police, and step aside If you aren't going to help him, but to tell his family at least.


    He is a bitch for even thinking about offing himself.
     
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    What do you possibly owe him ?

    A swift kick to the teeth, that's what.
     
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    good god you guys are ruthless man. Its your decision with whatever you do. Cant take it back when you make it, so be 100% in you direction of action.
     
  18. BigJ

    BigJ I'm just about that action Boss. VIP

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    Wow. We have some spiteful people on here.

    Give him something to live for. Forgive and forget. Be a good person and reach out. He's in the time of need. I'd hope that someone would help me if I'm down in that way, not like I'd ever be.

    Honestly, I'd do everything in your power to bring him up to a level where he knows he was wrong for doing what he did to you, but isn't about to kill himself, or even thinks about it.
     
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    Yea fucking talkers.
    Like you said, the other guy who killed himself, was without warning or reason, those are the ones who carry thru, internal issues.
    MOST of the time people who talk about killing themselves never do it.
    Fuck this dude, offer to help him instead of worrying.
     
  20. TWAN

    TWAN Senior Member

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    that is pretty much exactly how i feel about the whole thing. I was at that point once. i thought that it was the only way out. but i had somone step in and give me somthing to hold onto. im just wondering that out of all the people out there... why he chose me?
     
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