I need some "how to start things up" advice. I've never been a ladies man, although I've given my friends some awesome advice in the past. Some history, BDN and I used to work at a company called Ingram Books. I'd worked there for a short time when I started to notice Sarah N. She was so gorgeous. BDN will agree, but being the guy with the mindset I had, I never wanted to bug her, talk to her, or hit on her because every single guy in the place did all the time. She is very attractive, but thats not what drew me to her. After 6 months of pretty much ignoring her, I was doing some after hours non-production scale work as she was starting and we started talking. One of the first things she said was "I didn't think you liked me because you never talked to me." It still sticks out in my mind because a woman this beautiful can't possibly be this humble. Another day I was talking with another Sarah about going to taco bell and Sarah N., out of the blue, said I'd go to taco bell with you to me. Once again, I was just astonished. I didn't know what to say to that. When the day we got off early came, I'd left a note on Sarah N's. car with my phone number and it basically said call me when you're off and we'll hang out at taco bell. After that I waited up around the area for an hour and then finally went home when I got impatient. As I was walking up to my old apartment my phone rang. It was her, when I mistakenly told her I had gotten home, she said nevermind then, I wouldn't want to make you drive all the way back here. Being the dumbass that I was I said ok and hung up. I found out she works for the same company that one of my good friends does. I asked him if he knew her, and he said he knew of her and actually went through training with her at the same time. Here it is 5 years later, I'd found her on facebook and sent her this message. I seriously hope I'm not fucking up with this message, but its the best I can come up with. Give me some advice guys. It's been a while since I've dealt with a woman, let alone one this special and awesome. How do I go about trying to be a part of her life without fucking anything up?