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I'm going going........to Cali

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  1. Taco15

    Taco15 I wear stretchy pants VIP

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    That's right fellow HS friends.

    In a few months, sometime in July mrs. taco and I are headed to california for a few years.
    Anyone in the Pomano area? :ph34r:
     
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    lo siento
     
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    why? feel like paying more taxes for the same weather? lol
     
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    (insert racist joke here)
     
  5. Taco15

    Taco15 I wear stretchy pants VIP

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    Vet school man. she wants to continue and of course she's been in college for damn near 6 years.
    undergrad
    Masters
    random classes re-taken and now this. she gone to far to walk away. I hate to walk away from my job but I can't let her give up either. not that we would......i really didn't have a choice. :(

    She dropped the bomb on me after she had chosen the school and was waiting for letters of acceptance.
     
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    There's no vet schools near by?
     
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    sounds fun hope yor cars have the right emissions
     
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    she didn't get in those schools. Cali was the only one and even though living is more expensive,earthquakes ,my job, she won't have a job, buying a house, no family scenario is not stopping her.

    AND yes it sucks that I may not take the CRX. we shall see.
    even my RSX isn't carb legal :(
     
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    damn it man, i will babysitt the rex:D
     
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    do you mean Pomona?
     
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    Well, maybe you will be able to get a sales job out there... otherwise I'd say that to completely uproot yourself with no prospects at this point is a terrible terrible idea.
     
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    For the right woman anything is worth it.

    Even if it means to moving to... I wont even say it.
     
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    Pomona kinda sucks, as well as L.A. in general. Pomona's more east toward the inland empire, so it's hot as fuck in the summer and smoggy. The gf and I had looked at moving there a couple years back when we both got into cal poly pomona, but ended up deciding on coming back to San Diego. I'm not sure what rent is like where you live, but it's expensive in the L.A. area. We were looking at 2 bedroom apts in non-ghetto areas and the cheapest around were about $1200.mo. Most areas around are kinda sketchy too, so if you are looking at a place, drive by in the day and night a few times before you sign anything. We did find one cool city when we were looking, San Dimas. The rent prices there were reasonable, the areas looked a lot more safe, and it's close to Pomona.
     
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    If this were reversed...

    "Woman, quick your job, we're moving to cali so i can go to more school" she'd leave you.

    just saying. lol

    guys take so much shit and just do it for the girls, but if reveresed, OMG!
     
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    they're married B.. gotta support your spouse
     
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    might run into Bill and Ted too.. maybe Socrates
     
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    Weather is not the same bud. Come to CA sometime, you might actually like it. ;)
     
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    That's when you tell them to fuck off, however being that they're married, I'm guessing if he can't make it happen, she would understand, but if there's a way of pulling it off, and it offers a good option for their future, there's no reason not to try.

    If you get married for the right reasons you stop thinking about yourself as long as the relationship is well and in balance. It's all about the two of you.

    I'd do whatever I could to make linh happy, even if it meant leaving everything behind for a few years. If it was something we could pull off without to much risk of being on the streets. I'd try.
     
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    Yup, marriage is a completely different animal. You do what is best for both of you.
     
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    Which is why i live in san antonio now. twice the pay half the cost of living...how could i not take the job.
     
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