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Ladies i need some advice!

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  1. c97x

    c97x sorry boss, its turbo

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    so me and the old ladie just recently broke up. Ive always had a crush on her friend we will call her by D. Now me and D have a couple pics of us from prom and some of me n the ex at prom. So i talked to D saying i didnt wanna see the ex, so i would like to get the pics of of her. we decided the best thing would be to meet up so i can pic the ones i want. she responded with "Your Welcome! Ill let you know...dont ever hesitate to ask me if you need something else!" So when we meet up im gonna see if she wants to goto dinner. I need a womans prespective...Do you think i have a chance with it? i figure if i treat her real good i might be able to pull it off
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    go juggle maltov cocktails... its probly a lot safer


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  3. jeffie7

    jeffie7 Wrong Whole! VIP

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    You have a chance with anything, just ask.
     
  4. BigJ

    BigJ I'm just about that action Boss. VIP

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    Asking never hurt.



    But friends are off limits usually, to me, for a long period of time.
     
  5. LSacuragirl90

    LSacuragirl90 Get the Point

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    i will say this that girl is going to loose her friend that's like off limits but, it never hurts to ask. g/l
     
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    Briansol Admins Admin VIP

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    best friends are 100% off limits
    close friends are 80% off limits
    acquaintances are fair game
     
  7. Celerity

    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    This will end in epic failure.

    Forget the friends thing, likely if she even knows that you've broken up with this girl, and then "yer sweatin her fer a date" then you're screwed. You need to romance it up a bit.

    Show up, do what you said you were going to do, make eye contact for like 1 second longer than normal. Leave.
     
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  8. oneofakinduserid

    oneofakinduserid Eh?

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    ^ kudos... listen to him he seems to know what he's talking about
     
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    TurboMirage YEEAAAHHH VIP

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    give her the old stifler bang and boot.
     
  10. c97x

    c97x sorry boss, its turbo

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    there kinda like close friends i guess, they never hung out all that much thou. i think ill just butter her up for a good month or so and see if it goes anywhere, to hard on her she might get scared. she may lose her friend(my ex) but really school is done in 2 weeks and when they go away to college they will prob never talk again. epic failure could potentially happen but i got one chance so im gonna take it
     
  11. Celerity

    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    Well, you CAN play this out. I did. But it ended within the school year.
     
  12. c97x

    c97x sorry boss, its turbo

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    also when i said ask her to dinner, i meant when were printing the pics ill just ask if she wants to get something to eat right after, not setup a date on another day
     
  13. Celerity

    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    I think sometimes we all look too deeply into this.

    We come up with ultimate, grand-unification theories (me) or we address the situation with spitting disdain and low-brow retardation (PIITB and boot her to the curb) without remembering that these people we are talking about are either really young, and operate below certain levels, or really too important to be given levels that are too low (We miss our mark)

    General rules of thumb: Everyone likes to be treated as a human. pouring booze down her throat and threatening her with humiliation for not letting you stick your dick in her isn't what anyone wants. Anything higher than that won't happen, anything lower than that is rape.

    If you're interested, show her your interest - Don't be creepy. There is a millisecond difference between "The look of interest" and "The soul-shattering stare of a donkey raping madman". Know your limits.

    Everything in between is up to you and your habits. If your habits don't parallel, or at least come close to your target's habits - Then it simply isn't meant to be. What makes it close to the target or close enough for excusabiltiy ? Random fucking chance. If my 19 year old Goth girl thought I came on too strong there were two choices: I could change myself (Likely to pretend, more likely to fail, as her acts did with me) or I could pound sand up my ass (most likely of all). Nothing personal. She doesn't hate me, I don't hate her - We're just too goddam different to court.

    Lastly you all, we all really need to get in touch with ourselves and those around us. We need more time alone, quiet to think about things than we grant ourselves. And dammit man, we really need to give others time to think and contemplate the situation as well. I fail at this one hardcore - because I usually draw my conclusions before someone is done speaking the 3 syllable, and I am also stuck on the crazy notion that I can read minds and predict the future (although my predictions are rarely off, quantum theory has laid waste to my sense of time flow, and I remember the future so well that I can predict what you think - And somehow when I drop a dumpster full of legos on the ground, a perfectly formed castle forms. Boggles even my mind)
     
  14. BigJ

    BigJ I'm just about that action Boss. VIP

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    Why is celerity such a pussy?
     
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    MadMaXXX Mad Man

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    do it! if she says yes, then you can feel her out from there.
     
  16. c97x

    c97x sorry boss, its turbo

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    good damn that was deep, then again you are 10 years older than me, a bit more well rounded i should say. and no i just dont wanna pound and bounce on her, i actually see that she is one of the few worth my effort, those pound and bounce girls are everywhere. actually i have one girl that i want a relationship with(D, the one we are man talking about) and 3 i could give the pound and bounce. if i fail with D, then ill step to one of those dirty girls.

    but i figure if i can treat her very nice, but not pushy, i think i have a good chance. mind you she has never been in a long term relationship. its like walking on eggshells, just got to get her over the deal of me dating her friend...
     
  17. Celerity

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    I'll take the pepsi challenge ANYDAY pal :)
     
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    TurboMirage YEEAAAHHH VIP

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    yeah but what about the morning after challenge? :)
     
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  20. 90_EF_Hatch

    90_EF_Hatch Señor Member

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    dude, refer to my posts in the GF picture threads lol. Ex's Best friends are TOTALLY not off limit. Maybe it was a fluke but i never got any visits from the drama llama ... you just have to know how to play it right ;) plus the whole "my best friend dated him" gives it a more "exciting" (for lack of a better term) feel. idk, I say go for it :thumbsup:
     
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