well, i wouldnt actually call it a problem..... long story short, was fucking around with the personals on the net... and met this cute blonde two months out here in cali from chicago.... met up last sunday night for some drinks, hit it off well.... she is a very moral, and upstanding person...not typical of the "Fast" girls i usually go for. supposed to goto Tony's (expensive seafood joint) tonite on an official "date" coo coo right? not really. this other chick that i was talking to on the personals....decides to email me this monday. we are talking and whatnot...suddenly the conversation turns to sex. she had a half day off from work, and invites me over for a blow job ..... she said i got her so worked up, she had to get off.... i was hesitant, because this chick does have some substance to her, and i like what she was about....so she kinda got scared off after she said it....and didnt really push the issue. altho, im sure if i pressed i coulda hit. long story even longer, i was hesistant about calling this chick up. she gave me her #.....so im thinking, ya she is smart, has substance to her...but could be a ho? plus she was not as cute as the first one in her pics....looked kinda heavyset.... so curiosity got the better of me last night, and i was like fuckit. even if she is a boog-a-woof, i still wanna meet her. i just got off a 8 month nightmare relationship and am not lookin to jump back it. a good friend that i can get along with is cool for me. so i call her up. both of us were hesitant to meet each other, not sure really what to expect. drive up to her house in hermosa.....THREE blocks from the beach i might add (scooooooooooore...oooh ya /family guy) and i was talkin to her on my cell and she was tellin me how to get to her house.... when all of a sudden i see this HOT fucking blonde with shoulder length hair (ala jennifer anniston style) sitting on the porch on her cell.....but didnt get a good look at her. had to park down the street ....so as im walking up...my fucking jaw drops. she looks NOTHING like her pics. face looks like the typcial hermosa beach blonde, body was nothing short of perfect. wasnt "tweeker thin" but, fuck...i got pretty high standards and was good to go in my book. long story even longer, we talk, walk down to the beach and really hit it off. wind up spending the night and getting the blowjob of a lifetime : ) man can she suck cock....and im not just saying that either. man can she suck cock.... so heres the dillema. the second chick is hotter than the first. i hit it off with the second chick, cuz she is so like my type..... but the first chick, is so what i always wanted to date. a "moral-istic" girl.... second chick, has the potential to be a heartbreaker, even tho im not even 1/10 close to looking for love. first chick is like a puppy dog. what do i do? im lost. good sex and a fun time with the potential of a decent relationship? the second chick has alot going on for her in her head....but, sucked my cock on the first date, and was most likely going to fuck me after talking to me on emails for only a few days if i woulda pushed it. or, the loyal housewife.... im still deciding. wanna chill with the second one more, and try and call her out to see if she really is a ho or not worth my time..... and dating two girls at once is NOT an option. i decided to start back in school in the spring time, and just quit my job. so the bling bling just isnt there. and both chicks are college graduates, and both make bank. so dating one or the other, even casually is all i can do financially.....you guys know how it is.....goto dinner, go get food, go out to fuck around, shit like that. i like spending money. cliff notes? sorry, if ur interested read the story.