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Newly Single :( vent

Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by corvetteguy78, Jun 3, 2008.

  1. corvetteguy78

    corvetteguy78 Well-Known Member VIP

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    Welp, some of you may remember I got enganged February of 2007. Welp for the past few months I have been really unhappy with our relationship.

    There was nothing to fix, it was just personality conflicts that i have dealt with and of course lack of sex. I thought i was happy, but i wasn't. So i told her last sunday i didn't want to marry her or be with her anymore. She's moving out of the condo this Saturday. I think I am ok. I haven't broken down or cried.

    I dunno...jjust venting...its still hard
     
  2. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    how long have you two been together?
     
  3. corvetteguy78

    corvetteguy78 Well-Known Member VIP

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    3 years
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    congratulations
    hope you made the right decision
     
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    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    If you need anything, lemme know.
     
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    good choice now, then later and married.

    whats there to cry about? you got rid of her for a reason.
     
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    Best that you did it now and not after you got married and realized you were unhappy. 2 good friends of mine were in long relationships, got married, and both were divorced in under 3 years. You saved yourself both money and heartache in the long run. Hang in there.
     
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    Nope no kids, just our dog, which I bought so she stays with me. Mostly everything in the place is mine, furniture, electronics, appliances..i bought it all...I am giveing her the spare TV and spare surrond sound system, my computer desk and whatever she bought she can take.
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    sounds like you got out at the right time then... as was said... better now than after you were married and already shit out a kid or two

    yeah it sucks realizing that the time invested didnt end up working out... but fuck it really... you're still alive... move on... life isnt going to spot you 5 minutes to finish getting your head together
     
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    not to sound gay but......... you're a good looking dude with personality and a good job. you shouldn't have a problem replacing her.


    don't chase 'em, replace 'em
    /biggie
     
  12. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    you know i, thug 'em, fuck 'em, love 'em, leave 'em. cause i dont' fucking need them. take them out the hood, keep 'em looking good, but i don't fucking feed them.

    /jay-z
     
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    Thanks man ...I think so too...I consider my self to be a pretty good guy...

    B, wanna have sex>?
     
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    Briansol Admins Admin VIP

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    no, i'm straight. homo.

    brYan with a "y" will though. you can find him in a thong in the man-ass thread... lol
     
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    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    This is the same guy that's dating Beyonce Knowles ?

    Classy, real Classy.
     
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    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    Also, for being friends of yours, they have some shit advice :)
     
  17. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    no advice to give. he already made the move.

    it's a lot easier to recover when you are the dumper not the dumpee...
     
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    hahaha...fine then!~
     
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    this is definately true...
     
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    Not in all ways. Both are for the birds, but when you're the dumper it's not like the sun comes out. It still fucks you up.

    These people were engaged to be married. you're all thinking "Whew ! Dodged the bullet!" the honest thought process is "I was really working hard towards something that is no longer possible". You're walking in a different direction, but you're still walking through a mine field.
     
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