no no, i'm thinking his way. i'm looking to get engaged within the next 6 months. it's a fucking bummer. but he did dodge a bullet though. he didn't cop out and say, "i'm comfortable here". he made a man decision. i give him props for it.
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Not in all ways. Both are for the birds, but when you're the dumper it's not like the sun comes out. It still fucks you up.
These people were engaged to be married. you're all thinking "Whew ! Dodged the bullet!" the honest thought process is "I was really working hard towards something that is no longer possible". You're walking in a different direction, but you're still walking through a mine field.
This is the same guy that's dating Beyonce Knowles ?
Classy, real Classy.
The life span for the average relationship, without further commitment of kids or mutually desired marriage, is 3 years.
3 years. I did 14, but only because I'm not your average joe.
holy shit, thats the same situation im dealing with today,
sounds like i typed the op myself.
congrats on breaking it. we'll see how mine goes. maybe posting a rant about it later. lol.
i'll speak up for relationship forensics - was it the engagement that killed the relationship? or was the engagement the 'next thing on the list' and/or the last ditch effort to be 'happy' in this relationship and you subsequently realized that didn't work, either?