As far as your style - Remain who you are. I don't care if you wanna tattoo every inch of your body - No one should have a bearing on your decision. When people are giving you the "You'd be perfect if only you...." That's conditional "love". And that sucks.
Don't give conditional love, and don't take it.
That whole "Thinking with your head and not with your cocks" thing is a silly female catch phrase. Penis' have no brain, you can't think with them. The saying is cute, but it has no place in a level-headed conversation. When you're interested in the way a girl looks, then it's just that. I like girls with streaked colors in their hair. It's just a thing that signifies her style. When it comes to fit women, it only tells me that they are active enough to keep some pounds off. I would say of all the fatties I've known and dated, the problem had nothing to do with "Glands" or "metabolism"... It all comes down to how much time they spend sitting on their asses, slackjawed and slovenly. A fit woman to me means she is one of those people that does things. And that's hot. It's not that thinner people are happier people, but happier people are more often than not, thinner people.
All of someone's physical attributes CAN be traced back to some important psychological thing. From their taste in clothes to the way they grow their nails. Lets go over some examples:
Exposed midriff shirts: Yeah, cute every-so-often. But does EVERYTHING have to show off the belly button? This stinks of low-esteem and she feels the need to show skin to attract people. (Hey! Look at ME!)
Thongs: These things are gross. And it seems to go hand-in-hand with wearing the high shirts so that they can show off the thongs. Yay. I know that Thongs were originally meant to hide a panty line, but funny how "Brief lines" never came into question. Wear pants that are just a smidge looser. Jesus.
Low cut shit pants: Raise the shirt, lower the belt line. You ever see how low that shit goes? Ewww... It's like they have Willie Nelson in a leg-lock.
Tattoos. UUUGGGHHHH fucking tattoos. I'll talk and admire people with them - But I hate tattoos with the passion. It's ugly art that I wouldn't hang on my garage wall. I've been over this, I obviously differ from most people on this, I won't go into it. The only problem I have is how COMFORMIST it is in women. They all have the standard issue: Something silly in the small of the back, some sort of flower on the ankle, or some shit on their shoulder blade. It's Boring, and so are they.
No tone. Women that are fit are great, but that also means some muscle tone. I've seen women that can't push the coin slot in on the pool table. That's just sad. Who wants to be around that ? Does she need someone to open doors for her out of necessity?
I have some odd observations too, wanna hear them? Of course you do. You don't have to agree, it's just something that I've noticed.
Druggies have flat bangs. It's like the front of their heads are lifeless. If I see a girl with nice hair, and flat bangs she always comes along with some sort of heavy addiction.
Pierced tongues. She'll tell you all sorts of things about her sexual prowess. Pierced tongues always mean that they have no clue how to have really good sex. (OO! Look at ME!)
Look at their friends. She is one of them. Think about it. If she hangs with assholes, chances are she's one too. Why waste your time trying to prove me wrong
Then there are all sorts of things to consider... From cars to the town in which they live. It's all important stuff. I won't even TALK to a girl that idolizes europe. But I'm strange.
-> Steve
