Originally posted by Sweet InStinct@Mar 12 2003, 12:25 PM
OKAY SINCE I AM A GIRL & IM SMARTER THAN MOST OF THE MALES IN HERE....
I CAN GIVE U THE BEST ADVICE
For sure as hell its a crappy situation.... but dont see it that way. See it as a learning experiance.
Dont let it get to ur head. Think about it first b4 doing anything Crazy! (Good job in posting it!)
Okay STRAIGHT up the way I see it:
Shes a 17 year old whore. No offence if she can sleep with u and ur friend at the same time or what not... those are signs of a slut (sorry but its true)
Think about it which girl does that?
You BROKE up but ur still having sex......... now c mon.. obviously.. ur.. umm.. "Hung" really well if she comes back for more. It doesnt mean that she wants to go back out.. maybe shes just using u for ur.... umm.. "good looks" (wink wink)
She put some effort into the relationship and she doesnt want to go start another one if she only wants sex. so theres ur answer to that.. shes using u. if she wanted back she would say so. or hint it on.
Im guessing you have feelings for her thats y ur angry at ur "friend" as well.
Where did you hear from that your "friend" was talkin to her? could it be false info?? IN ANYCASE
UR ex said "well what about mike?" and UR "friend" said "just dont tell mike....it will be our little secret"
R U BLIND BUDDY? hes not ur friend is hes doing that......... or has done it twice to this date.
NOW DONT SPAZZ OUT!
Age really doesnt matter in all this.... so hes 21 shes 17.... whatever who cares? shes a slut.. and hes a loser who needs to go after other peoples left overs... kno what i mean?
U SHOULDNT EVER SHOW THEM THAT UR MAD!
if u have will power ull get them back in a sneekier way
trust me...... it works..
Since this is the SECOND time... U SHOULD BE ANGRY and he shouldnt be ur friend if he did it once!
THATS NOT WHAT FRIENDS DO! u know it.. i kno it.. we all kno it.
If hes like an acquaintance... then....... its not as bad for u.
Heres what u do.
U pretend that you dont know......Act like its something u think shes not capable of.
keep having sex with her... ull feel the greatest gratitude while screwing her and knowin that she thinks u dont know about the other guy. UR THE SMART ONE.. haha NOT HER... try and get anything off of her.. use her for all shes worth.. even if its not alot........ then when ur done. and sick of her.. u start acting rude.. and u treat her like the 2 cent whore she is.
Then u tell her that u know about them two.. and u could care less cause all u ever wanted from her was sex. and u got it and thats it... and she could jump to the next guy cuz thats what sluts do.
Best line to use on her as ur final words... "haha and I thought u were different from the other sluts come my way.. haha i was even starting 2 like you.. I was gonna take you back and not pass over my left overs to ___SO AND SO____.. but ur nothing to me... just another girl that got used USED!" there u go.. and
she'll be broken hearted for the rest of her life.
Dont show her u care.. tell her to get the hell out and leave. Dont Drive her home.. dont so shit for her.. BUDDY SHE PLAYED U!
as for ur friend... dont let it bug u much.. remember hes getting ur left overs..... u already got what u wanted.. and u shouldnt be mad at him as much as her.. cause shes the one who let it happen."what about mike?"> all it takes is a NO! 2 letter word N O........ Easy as that!
Dont let it get u down! ur worth alot more than that.
Haha yeah so theres my advice to u.
hahah I WROTE a damn NOVEL!
no real friend deeps into the the old koolaid
