Celerity
Well-Known Member
She looks 34 to me. Remember horse women stay young in the bod, not in the face. You can also tell by the hands. Tell-tale horse chick.
Also, beyond the fat spoiled girls at the ranch, seasoned riders are NEVER fat. She rides Hunt though, which 100 times out of 100 mean she's a royal fuckin' bitch on wheels.
I have a few minutes, so I'll rant.
Women like this are just like "Men like this". She came after you, which means that you have a trait that she can exploit. Men do it, Women do it too.
A Horse-woman is just like a Sports Guy. These people live in a very by-the-numbers lifestyle where if things get the slightest surreal, they will freak out. The moment she observes you sinking $2500 into something for "That damned Honda" then she'll start shopping around to replace you.
Imagine "Sports Guy" when his girlfriend buys an $800 Barbie doll for her collection.
Horse people are also like Non-smokers. They are vehomently trying to convince you of their ways. They will not have a problem upgrading their stall for $400 more a month, then suddenly hit the roof when you buy a new set of rims. Cars are evil, wouldn't it be nice if everyone went back to horses ?
Horsepeople, which are about 90% women in the first place, rank along the same lines as Wiccans and Gays. They are full of political bearing, can't possibly accept an opposing viewpoint - no matter how level and reasoned - And are generally pains in the ass to talk to. Also, on the East Coast our most staunch liberals can all be found on horseback.
Adults that own horses also fancy themselves as some sort of social Elite. And as an elitist, if you don't respect them above and beyond what they deserve, then you're wrong. Also, they will only listen and regard someone that is part of that elite. Computer geeks and car guys aren't in the Horse Elite.
At the age of about 10, all girls love horses. They all want a pony. All 10 year old boys want to be famous athletes and / or musicians. After a while, these desires begin to wane and replenish with desires of making something else out of themselves, and moving onto new dreams.
So a girl that carries that dream of Horses beyond that age is the same as a guy that keeps his room full of posters, model airplanes, star wars figures and his 8th grade soccer trophy. Same caliber of folk.
Not saying that these people are bad - I have models of cars in my bedroom as well - But you simply have to ask if this is the person you want to be involved with. An orgasm is maybe 20 seconds, but the blithering idiot you're stuck with for the rest of the hour is forever.
Keep in mind, that she sees something in you to exploit - And if she sees the same thing that all women see, it's that you'll do anything once she lets you defile her glory hole. We call these people "Man Eaters".
In my online dating experience I dated 3 women like this. It's a trap. They want to talk about you, in the hopes of gleening something that they can hook onto and exploit. You'll feel good that some "Really hot chick is interested in my personality". You'll be tricked into thinking that she cares. All she is doing, as we all do, is searching for your self-destruct button. Since all women love to change their men, they have to destroy what is there before they got there so they can rebuild you. They look towards brainy guys to solve their problems, homely guys to get their way, and successful guys to buy them new saddles. Fuck em, they are single because luckily someone before you was smart enough to figure it out.
When I was looking, as you are now, look at "who you represent". You are a decent man looking for a decent woman that you actually want to spend time with. You're no model, but you're not a deformed freak (Like me !) So you need the self-esteem necessary to go out and start "lookin fer love".
If you WERE a model, then your look for love would also be representative of who you are. When you're hot, you don't need to muster courage to ask women out. But you're not hot. She is.
So what she's done here is not search within her soul to contact you. And what you are craving is someone who can search their soul and gather up the gumption to contact you. She's got a great bod, but this is a bad fit. If you were to meet, she would hold some sort of upperhand over you, and the moment she couldn't - she's up, out.
I have a feeling I know you. There are tons of guys on this forum that hold no emotional attachment to women, and because of it they seem to get all the girls. You, as I, are not like this. We get all emotionally attached to the slightest things, and if you walk into this, regardless of how you convince yourself to stay distant - You'll end up getting hurt. You will because you CAN'T emotionally disconnect. It's not in your nature.
Instead of fighting the deck that life deals you, work with it. While the "guys that get a ton of ass" may get quantities of women that make your head spin, "Deep, involved guys" such as us will instead find less women, but more women we actually enjoy being around. Life, after a while, is no longer a pain in the ass. We can devote our minds and souls into the work that we produce (being men), without the worries that "Tons of Ass" men get. Because our minds reach a different kind of "Completeness" when we are with someone.
It's rarer, but it does happen. And when it does, It all feels as though it's paid off.
-> Steve
I'm also willing to bet that she currently has a boyfriend, and she is searching for her golden parachute.
Also, beyond the fat spoiled girls at the ranch, seasoned riders are NEVER fat. She rides Hunt though, which 100 times out of 100 mean she's a royal fuckin' bitch on wheels.
I have a few minutes, so I'll rant.
Women like this are just like "Men like this". She came after you, which means that you have a trait that she can exploit. Men do it, Women do it too.
A Horse-woman is just like a Sports Guy. These people live in a very by-the-numbers lifestyle where if things get the slightest surreal, they will freak out. The moment she observes you sinking $2500 into something for "That damned Honda" then she'll start shopping around to replace you.
Imagine "Sports Guy" when his girlfriend buys an $800 Barbie doll for her collection.
Horse people are also like Non-smokers. They are vehomently trying to convince you of their ways. They will not have a problem upgrading their stall for $400 more a month, then suddenly hit the roof when you buy a new set of rims. Cars are evil, wouldn't it be nice if everyone went back to horses ?
Horsepeople, which are about 90% women in the first place, rank along the same lines as Wiccans and Gays. They are full of political bearing, can't possibly accept an opposing viewpoint - no matter how level and reasoned - And are generally pains in the ass to talk to. Also, on the East Coast our most staunch liberals can all be found on horseback.
Adults that own horses also fancy themselves as some sort of social Elite. And as an elitist, if you don't respect them above and beyond what they deserve, then you're wrong. Also, they will only listen and regard someone that is part of that elite. Computer geeks and car guys aren't in the Horse Elite.
At the age of about 10, all girls love horses. They all want a pony. All 10 year old boys want to be famous athletes and / or musicians. After a while, these desires begin to wane and replenish with desires of making something else out of themselves, and moving onto new dreams.
So a girl that carries that dream of Horses beyond that age is the same as a guy that keeps his room full of posters, model airplanes, star wars figures and his 8th grade soccer trophy. Same caliber of folk.
Not saying that these people are bad - I have models of cars in my bedroom as well - But you simply have to ask if this is the person you want to be involved with. An orgasm is maybe 20 seconds, but the blithering idiot you're stuck with for the rest of the hour is forever.
Keep in mind, that she sees something in you to exploit - And if she sees the same thing that all women see, it's that you'll do anything once she lets you defile her glory hole. We call these people "Man Eaters".
In my online dating experience I dated 3 women like this. It's a trap. They want to talk about you, in the hopes of gleening something that they can hook onto and exploit. You'll feel good that some "Really hot chick is interested in my personality". You'll be tricked into thinking that she cares. All she is doing, as we all do, is searching for your self-destruct button. Since all women love to change their men, they have to destroy what is there before they got there so they can rebuild you. They look towards brainy guys to solve their problems, homely guys to get their way, and successful guys to buy them new saddles. Fuck em, they are single because luckily someone before you was smart enough to figure it out.
When I was looking, as you are now, look at "who you represent". You are a decent man looking for a decent woman that you actually want to spend time with. You're no model, but you're not a deformed freak (Like me !) So you need the self-esteem necessary to go out and start "lookin fer love".
If you WERE a model, then your look for love would also be representative of who you are. When you're hot, you don't need to muster courage to ask women out. But you're not hot. She is.
So what she's done here is not search within her soul to contact you. And what you are craving is someone who can search their soul and gather up the gumption to contact you. She's got a great bod, but this is a bad fit. If you were to meet, she would hold some sort of upperhand over you, and the moment she couldn't - she's up, out.
I have a feeling I know you. There are tons of guys on this forum that hold no emotional attachment to women, and because of it they seem to get all the girls. You, as I, are not like this. We get all emotionally attached to the slightest things, and if you walk into this, regardless of how you convince yourself to stay distant - You'll end up getting hurt. You will because you CAN'T emotionally disconnect. It's not in your nature.
Instead of fighting the deck that life deals you, work with it. While the "guys that get a ton of ass" may get quantities of women that make your head spin, "Deep, involved guys" such as us will instead find less women, but more women we actually enjoy being around. Life, after a while, is no longer a pain in the ass. We can devote our minds and souls into the work that we produce (being men), without the worries that "Tons of Ass" men get. Because our minds reach a different kind of "Completeness" when we are with someone.
It's rarer, but it does happen. And when it does, It all feels as though it's paid off.
-> Steve
I'm also willing to bet that she currently has a boyfriend, and she is searching for her golden parachute.
