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The Drama Llama Returns...

Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by SlushboxTeggy, May 5, 2008.

  1. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    So some of you know, others don't, I dated a girl from Dec.05' to Dec 06'. First love and all that bullshit. Well obviously we have been off and on with each other pretty much since then and were actually dating this winter until my birthday in January.

    Well after we broke up this time we realized that it just wouldn't work but having known each other for nearly 3 years intimately we wanted to try the friend thing rather than just throw it out. That worked for awhile. Then of course we went to the friends with benefits. But we promised each other it wouldn't go any further.

    Then we had a falling out during her sorority's formal, I won't go into detail. And I was only there in the first place because we were friends, her date bailed last minute, and I was "guaranteed ass" as she put it.

    Well her organization and mine did Greek Week together and she felt the need to make my life a living hell. By the end of the week at our business meeting, my fraternity banned her from our house. I wasn't even at the meeting so obviously it was not my doing but hers that she got banned.

    So a week or so of no contact and there is a knock on our door. It's another fraternity, wasted, coming to fight us. Myself and a friend call their President, explain the situation and he gets his drunk brothers off my porch. Well that's about when the bar let out. A few minutes go by and my ex and a kid from another fraternity come walking up to my house to "see what happened with the other fraternity". Neither of these people are welcome in our house and couldn't really think coming there was a good idea. This kid had tried to jump one of our brothers for hooking up with his ex. I exchange some words with this kid, he responds with a hard right and we tussle. I talked about this in another thread. Finally our friends break it up when it started getting dangerous and we both walk away, neither really getting anything out of it.

    At this point, I have a hatred for this girl. She knew exactly what would happen that night and used this kid to try and beat me up. But whatever, the ex and I had already given each other back our stuff and I was ready to go on my way. Tonight I get an IM saying she "found" 3 pairs of shorts and a pair of pants. Her room is tiny, nothing gets lost, she had this stuff in case she wanted to make contact again. So she tells me this, I say fine drop them off when you have a chance and she again starts pushing buttons. I was fine but the last thing she told me I cant shake... exactly what I believe she intended for.
    Let me set it straight, I want nothing to do with this girl. I don't want her as a friend or even someone I'm civil with. So saying that, WHY THE FUCK can't I shake this? Its 2 am and I can't fall asleep. I can't think about anything else. WHAT THE FUCK? I'm really just venting but if someone can give me insight to this it would be greatly appreciated.

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    Ex said something tonight that blew my brain apart and now I can't fall asleep.
     
  2. klyph

    klyph Dismember VIP

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    Dude, I can totally empathize, my girlfriend just made me a batch of chocolate chip cookies. They were so delicious, but now they're gone and I can't stop thinking about them.
     
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  3. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    Don't get me wrong, I truly enjoyed dating this girl when times were good, but her worse enemy was her imagination and self-confidence. When times were bad, they were friggin' horrible. I couldn't take the swings anymore. It just abused me mentally.
     
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    awptickes unimpressed by you VIP

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    I hate that shit.

    Don't let her get the upper-hand. Just go to sleep.
     
  5. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    I'm laying here tired but my mind wont stop. And she has had the upper hand, she just knows what gets me.
     
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    Celerity Well-Known Member

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    Believe not what people say, Believe only what they do.


    We often so blinded by hope, that we do the opposite. Also, we tend to superimpose our fantasies over reality because we gravitate towards it, crave for it. Like starving for 3 days, eating dirt and tasting steak.
     
  7. BigJ

    BigJ I'm just about that action Boss. VIP

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    I hate chicks. I have my own problems, on a similar level with yours. They suck. Whatever you do, don't bury yourself in a bottle. It's no fun.
     
  8. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    The thing is I don't want her. I pretty much think she will come to the realization that I am a great guy and that she missed the fucking boat. I truly had thought she was done with me except for 2 things. 1) Her profile say, and has said since the first time we broke up, "I promise one day, you will regret losing me." 2) She tells me this because she thinks it pisses me off but it actually just backs up my thinking, "I hooked up with a guy last night and said your name by accident." This has happened multiple times since the original break up and I have actually spoken to one of the guys to confirm that it actually happened at least once and that she wasn't making it up. IDK I'm laying down again and hopefully you won't see anymore posts from me tonight.
     
  9. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    I'm past that stage in my life. Stomach ulcers will do that. I had a problem for awhile and occasionally it will still get the best of me, but I get a reminder not to do it the next morning in the form of severe stomach pain.
     
  10. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    she sounds like a typical college slut. you got your nut, now tell her to bounce. you graduate soon and wont have to deal with all this college drama. it bothers you because she was part of your life for so long. thats normal.

    Bruce willis, pulp fiction....
    "feel that sting, that's pride fucking with you. fuck pride".

    guys hate losing. guys hate wasting time. you're not in love anymore, you're bitter. it's totally normal. just get some food and some sleep and you'll be fine.
     
  11. E_SolSi

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    :concur:
    and get use to it... theres going to be a few more times where people youve known for ever need to be cut out of your life... and its going to fuck with you, cuz you cant stand the fucking coked out pill head mother fucker... but youve known him since 4th grade so you feel like you have to be friends because theres so much history there....

    that was actually Ving Rhames speaking to Bruce Willis... but close enough :)

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    walk the fuck away
     
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    Again, I'm not believing what you're SAYING, but I AM believing what you're doing, right now, with this thread.
     
  13. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    yeah, bruce willis says it back to him when he is beating his ass in the pawn shop. i can relate better to bruce than ving. ^_^
     
  14. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    I've already had to. 3 different close friends. 2 got heavy into drugs and always wanted to borrow money. They actually showed up to the kid in my sig's wake high as fuck and asked a few people for money. The last kid claimed to be my friend, tried to fuck my little sister, then when that didn't work he made up stories saying they did and told everyone.

    But whoever said it was absolutely right, I wasted so much fucking time on this girl. I really think I just need the next fuck to get this out of my head. Sadly she was the last girl I slept with, and that was about 2 months ago. I think I'm just hung up on her and I'm in a little dry spell.
     
  15. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    Let me rephrase that. I would love for things to work and the emotional part of my mind wants them to. The rational part wont let me go back because it knows it wont work. This girl has trashed my room, punched me in the face, gotten me punched in the face, made me look like a fool, and generally fucked with my head for too long.
     
  16. TurboMirage

    TurboMirage YEEAAAHHH VIP

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    just gotta keep on keeping on slushie. i know how you feel. better to love and lost than love and get fucked over and over and over and over... etc.
     
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    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    Best advice yet, haha.
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    sounds like somebody needs a slump buster
     
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    when the waters of life get turbulant, watch out for kayaks.
     
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    E_SolSi Member of the 20 nut club Moderator VIP

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    :lmao:
    that is some Hallmark quality shit right there

    rep for you
     
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