This is what happens when parents puss out with their own kids. My kid is my kid, the way I look at it, its my job to make sure he is not a fuck up. It is my job to to teach him right from wrong. It is my job to address his health concerns. But way to many parents these days think its everyone else fault. Hell its easy to by into it when every politician in the country is shouting from the roof tops that we are all going to die if they don't do this or that.