Right, I agree with what you've said here. I think we're more on the same page then I thought originally.
And I completely agree with you on the need for us (Americans) to be driving smaller vehicles. Honestly, I've always despised driving large vehicles. I've driven big vans, trucks, and SUVs for work in the past and have not enjoyed it. I have never in my life had a desire to drive anything besides a small car. Since I'm a single guy right now my Integra coupe works fine for me. Even if I did have a family, something like an Accord/Camry/Fusion would be the biggest size of vehicle I'd be interested in owning.
It always has amazed me to see these ass-hat soccer moms and business men out driving a freakin' Suburban or Escalade to work or out shopping, just them in the car, no one else. Gas prices aside, it boggles my mind why you'd even want to drive a behemoth like that on a daily basis...