alright so i need some advice/opinions on what i should do right now. ok, so theres a girl in my architecture class that i like. i started talking to her a few weeks back and we hit it off great. we were both here all night workingon projects and we talked all damn night about so much stuff and really get along great. judging by what i know so far, her pesonality and views an stuff is totally what i would want in a girl. now comes the problems. theres another guy in the class that likes her. i didn't know that until i told him one day to introduce us, because i know he talked to her, and i had never talked to her at all. when i asked him that he said they were actually talking and stuff. well so at that point i just was like oh ok, so i backed off. well i ended up talking to her that night we were both here and all that. so fast forward like two weeks to saturday night, this last weekend. i had told her earlier i wanted to have a party of a get together at my house and she had said she wanted to come. so saturday i was having a party but didn't have her number to call her, and she wasn't in class the day before. so on saturday one of my other friends, pancho, calls me to get directions to my house and says he has a friend with him, not telling me it was her. this guy knows her through the guy who said he's talking to her. so they get ther and its her thats with him, so shes all happy to be there and all. well me and like 4 of my friends pretty much stayed in my room bullshitting and playing drinking games. she stayed on the couch with me the whole time and we were talking throughout the night. i ended up asking her straight up if they were talking and she was surprised and said no. she didn't know that he had said that i guess and was kinda pissed about it. so whatever, we stayed up all night and at one point, we were taling and without even saying anything we kissed. so yea, nothing else happened, which is ok, cause if i really wanted to just get some ass that night, i could have just went out to where everyone else was at. so i am gonna skip the other drama that had to do with the party which was many noise complaints because of the mud wrestling outside (i'll put pics up when i get em from my roommates ), police everywhere without a warrant and me telling them to get out. all kinds of shit happened. so in the morning she left, we kissed again right before, and ya thats it. now today i called her to se if she was at school yet and it turns out the guy that brought her told the other one about what happened, which i knew would happen. supposedly he called her and was being all dramtic about. so i haven't talked to her anymore today. now i just don't even know if i want to pursue it. on one hand i really do like the girl, and we get along great. on the other i know this dude is just gonna be a pain in the ass either way. i mean, he is kind of a friend, and so is the guy that brought this girl to my house, we go out sometimes to take a break during long nights at school and shit. yea i don't know how much sense this whole post makes, jsut kind of mixed up right now. you know, when you get a knot in your stomach because something happens and you can't really do anything about it right then, just have to wait. what i have thought about is just waiting it out until the next time i see her then talk about it. that idea sucks because, for one, this dude will not leave her alone, especially with me becasue he doesn't want me to talk to her, which is fuckin lame and insecure. also i hate waiting for shit. the other thing i thought about doing is just calling her tonight and talking about it. i just want to ask basically whats up, let hre kow i like her a lot, and let her decide. i'm not the type to chase after and bug someone to go out with me, but i just want to be able to know that i said how i felt and let her figure out what she wants. i have seen how she acts to him and even a couple other guys in class say she acts totally different to me, like she is really into me, and that she doesn't act that way to him. i don't know, what do you guys think?