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  1. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    As I said before. Boyfriend is 'tired' and doesn't want to romp. Here's really what I'm looking for. Guys, post up if you think he's honest or lying, tell me what happens when (or if) you're in this situation. Girls - has this happened to you? What do you think about it?

    And most importantly... give me ideas that will make him think twice about just going to sleep tonight...

    I know he's been crazy busy lately... he actually had to get up at 3am the other morning to go to work then went back at 11am and later had 3 tunes to do. I understand. But, I think maybe the 'routine' is getting to him. Sure, we do stuff different sometimes... but I need something that will just make him go nuts. :p

    What do you think?
     
  2. SlowStang305

    SlowStang305 Slowboy

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    Find new boyfriend
     
  3. pissedoffsol

    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    once in a while = hes really tired
    all the time = hes gay, or banging someone else
     
  4. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    No way! I love him. This is the only problem I've had as of late. He gets up at 5am every morning and I don't have to be up til 8. He comes home from a long day of work (and making money to pay our bills) and he just wants to relax. Granted... I fail to mention I still get it at least 3x a week... but it's just the nights he doesn't, I feel like it's my fault somehow. I hope I'm just overreacting and all that. I suppose I just got too used to when he wasn't working. We'd spend most of the day naked. Not necessarily having sex, either... but yea.

    I dunno... maybe I'm being to selfish... I can't always have it when I want it, right?
     
  5. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    If it were all the time, I'd ask you if you wanted him, then. :ph34r: :p JK
     
  6. pissedoffsol

    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    push him on the couch, and ride his ass. if you do all the work, he cant bitch.

    if he does, he's gay, or banging someone else
     
  7. Doc_G

    Doc_G Rude, Lewd, usually Nude

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    Let 'em PIITB:ph34r:

    seriously if its a problem w/routine then do something unconventional. Does he sit in a favorite chair nekkid??? or on the end of the bed while toweling off (I do that so its why I ask) if so... then catch him while he's got the towel over his head and give em a hummer. Fresh washed bawls are SOOO sensitive...

    otherwise... just spice things up a bit... catch him on an off day and give 'em a good rub down w/some warming oil, sented to his/your/ya'lls preference. Work the tension out of his shoulders and lower back and I can GUARRENTEE that will stoke his fire a good bit. Also nothing relaxes ME and puts ME in the mood like a good foot massage worked up my legs to my "special" area (not the brown eye you pervs) Try that out for size and see if it helps. If so hit me up I got tons more stuff for ya to try.

    oh yeah before I forget... ever try Role Play?
     
  8. chestercheeto48

    chestercheeto48 Senior Member VIP

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    Honestly when I am not in the mood it is either

    A)Tired

    B)lazy - I don't want to take the time to do what I need to do in order to give you what I think you want.


    If your up for doing the work then just hop on him or at least let him know all you want is a quicky
     
  9. nootrac22

    nootrac22 Well-Known Member VIP

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    When I first bought my house my exwife lost her job for taking the day off to move. So she stayed home to collect unemployment and set up the new house and I picked up a second job (wal mart sux). I was working 40 hrs a week plus a day or 2 of ot at the first job wich was a 45 min drive away, and about 30 hrs a week at the second job. up at 5am and getting off 2nd job at 1am, life sucked!! when i got home my ex would want to do things and i was exhausted, then i'd check the clock and realise i had to be up in 3.5 hrs.....HELL NO. On the days I only worked one job I was busy trying to catch up on things i couldn't get done during the week and still just plain tired. At that time I just woulda love to have gotten more bj's. My advice would be, be patient and understanding. he's working himself so much cause he's trying to take care of his family, that deserves some respect. When work slows down some I"m sure he'll be more than willing to make it up to you, and if work dosen't slow down soon make him take some time off (a weekend get a way). just my opinion
     
  10. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    I have NEVER been to tired to fuck. EVER

    B's somewhat right. he may be gay or banging someone else. I would stop having sex with a gf when I had my heart with someone else or wanted to be with someone else.

    I was with my ex, and met this girl Holly. I really liked her and she was all I could think about. I wouldn't have sex my gf because I was thinking about this other girl. It sucked, but it's how I felt.
     
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    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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  12. phyregod

    phyregod !!YTINASNI

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    What is he "Tuning" at 3am?!?

    I am a nympho. And my wife is mostly accomadating. So when I am too tired to fuck, she doesnt give me any hell about it. I go to the bedroom, crash, and thats the end of it. She was feeling frisky the other night, and I was tired, felt like crap, and was on nyquil. Having gone to bed already, I woke up to a hummer. Then, she proceeded to rape me. Did I stop her? Hell no. But I didnt have to do any work whatsoever.


    Try that?
     
  13. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    I wake him up every morning with a BJ. I mentioned this before. I think it's just because our schedules are a bit different. Weekends are different as well, he usually has to go tune cars. But, when we don't... we try to go do something. Massages he gets on a regular basis... about 4 times a week. He's got a bad back (fucked it off in a motorcycle accident) so I keep his back as close to in line as I can. (Massage therapist part of me) We've done the role play thing before. But, he gets too anxious and doesn't like to wait too long before getting the deed done. lol

    The overall end idea isn't really just to get sex out of him. I do get some, but I prefer once a day if I can. ;) I want him to feel like I appreciate what he does. I have a job, I take care of my kids on weekends (which I must say... he's AWESOME with my kids) and we do get busy with life and we don't end up 'saying goodnight' every night, but that's because he has a more busy workload and day than I do. When he gets his promotion, he wants me to quit my job. Old fashioned? Yes.

    I want to take him to this place in Lodi called Wine & Roses one weekend. I'm working to save enough (500 bucks) for the stay. The package includes a private jacuzzi tub for two... littered with rose petals and oils of choice for 2 hours. Then, the massage therapists knock and let you know it's time for your massage. We'd recieve side by side massages for an hour... then... brunch served by the top chefs in San Joaquin county. Paired with local wines and champagne on their patio. Private, secluded... and something that will help us both unwind. Luckily, Lodi isn't far away. The second day I'm taking him to the lake where we can have a picnic lunch. I'm planning this all out to happen somewhere in the middle of July... We both haven't had a true vacation in a year, and Vegas is a bit too far off.

    Which reminds me... I need to get into the tanning booth this week to keep my tan. God damn it's hard being a woman.
     
  14. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    if he is really into still sleeping with you, hold out on him. make him want it. then you will get it. if you overwhelm him with sex and bj's, he will take it for granted.
     
  15. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    He wasn't tuning. He's the network admin for a company in Lathrop. Their printer wasn't printing right and help desk wasn't helping so he had to go in. Granted, they paid him double for a minimum of 4 hours for his 1 hour of work.... and same for when he went in later that day.

    Tuning is his side job. ;)

    Geez... sounds like B and Nick think my boyfriend is screwing other girls. My question then is: when does he have time to do this? Why would he help me buy my car? Why does he put my name on his bank account? Doesn't sound like things someone cheating on you would do. Unless he REALLY wants me to fuck him over in the pocket.
     
  16. Black Widow g2

    Black Widow g2 *princess*

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    Nick - You guys are so hard to please. I thought it was easy. Food, Sex, Beer.
     
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    Capt. Orygun Win the Day

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    try the blowjob alarm clock, if that doesn't work move on
     
  18. phyregod

    phyregod !!YTINASNI

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    Wow. I'd kill for a hummer every morning. As would every other male on this board, I am sure.

    And a vacation? I'm 6 years overdue for a vacation. Take me!! Take me!!
     
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    phyregod !!YTINASNI

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    Sex, beer, food. Get your priorities straight!
     
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    for got porn
     
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