What does it mean when...?

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Phyre- I'm a nympho too. He told me he was, but he's not holding up his end of the bargain. :p Vacation? Want to come to Vegas with me? One stipulation though: We have to go on the Gondolas at the Venetian. That's half the reason I am going in the first place. haha
 
I have NEVER been to tired to fuck. EVER

Have you lived with someone where you were able to F any time you want?
It's one thing to have the option 2-3 times a week where you can F, it's another thing when you can do it anytime you want. At some point depending on the mood it can seem like work. I guess that's why most couples only do it a couple times a week. (once being together for awhile)

Mitsy have you tried spicing it up? either by dressing up, or bringing some kinky midget porn into the mix?

How is his work life? If he's beat I wouldn't blame him for being "too tired" but only if hes really beat.

How many times a week are you getting it? 1-2 times I wouldn't worry to much.
As long as hes not jacking off daily while turning you down.
 
jim bean, sex, food.

get it right. :)

My question then is: when does he have time to do this? Why would he help me buy my car? Why does he put my name on his bank account? Doesn't sound like things someone cheating on you would do. Unless he REALLY wants me to fuck him over in the pocket.

you SURE that was a printer call, or a booty call???? hey, ya never know.

he may love/care about you and trust you, but that doesn't mean hes not screwing around. I'm not saying he is, but the possibility is out there.

Try ASKING him. Not if hes cheating. but why he doesn't want to sleep with you any more. if he gets defensive, he's banging someone else.
 
I wouldn't know the answer to that, I ask, he says he hasn't rubbed one out in a long time... Morning BJ, shower, then work. He works from 6am - 3:30pm (unless he's needed later) and then he comes home, smokes a bowl and wants dinner. We eat together, talk about our day, then watch some tv to unwind.

I do things to spice it up occasionally... wait for him to get home and be in his favorite chair, naked... appearing to please myself... haha... but no midget porn. I think most of it is the work day. He hasn't had a job in years, and now he's got to get 'used' to working again. He used to be home all day... so whenever I got home from work it was on because he'd been sitting around doing nothing. I think he's genuine... but I can't shake the idea that maybe I'm lacking somewhere. I know I'm not a shitty screw... but maybe it's something I haven't found that he likes.

He never complains... even when I ask. I try to keep things very open. I suppose I shall try sending him picture messages...

...but he says his ex used to leave pics of her naked on his phone... he didn't like that too much. So, I decided not to. But... what the hell. They're of me, not her. ;)
 
jim bean, sex, food.

get it right. :)



you SURE that was a printer call, or a booty call???? hey, ya never know.

he may love/care about you and trust you, but that doesn't mean hes not screwing around. I'm not saying he is, but the possibility is out there.

Try ASKING him. Not if hes cheating. but why he doesn't want to sleep with you any more. if he gets defensive, he's banging someone else.


Jim BEAM get THAT right! ;) Yes, it was a legit call. I heard the phone ring, woke him up to let him know his phone was ringing off the hook... then he put the phone on speaker because he was walking around the house so I heard the whole convo. He was sitting at home using Remote Desktop trying to log in to the work computers and I was awake for all this. He'd be really stupid to cheat on me anyway... seriously.

I don't discredit that he could be sleeping with someone else... but he doesn't show the symptoms of it. His personal phone he leaves home, tells me to check his VM for him on occasion, and a bunch of other shit.

If he is cheating... then... I suppose I'll be looking for a new place to live.
 
I don't think he's cheating life just gets like this at times. don't read too much into it you're still getting it a few times a week, that's a good thing.
 
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True. I'm thinking this: Every relationship always has the possibility that one person is cheating on the other (or both) but this is where trust comes into play. I don't need to snoop on him, I don't want to follow him around, trace his actions etc to every day get proof he's not screwing someone else. I trust that he isn't given his actions during our relationship. We talk about EVERYTHING. It's odd to me because I'm used to the overbearing boyfriend who watches everything I do, searches for things to accuse me of, and then eventually finding out he's the guilty one. He's the exact opposite. I say I'm going out with a friend of mine, he goes 'have fun, when will you be home?' Not a million questions.

Like I said, he doesn't show the signs of a cheater. He also would be incredibly stupid to cheat after he's got 2 cars in his name, my name on his bank account, me as the beneficiary on his insurance etc... I could leave him high and very fucking dry. Anyone with motivation to have another woman in bed with him wouldn't do those things unless he truly thought he was THAT good at doing it... and he'd expect to get away with it.


And no, he doesn't have a secretary... the closest women to him are behind glass on the assembly line... and their very male looking.

Why are you guys making me nervous now? lol

Ok... now... gimme some ideas. What would you guys like to have your gf/wife (if you don't have one, pretend) do for you to get you going?
 
Ok... now... gimme some ideas. What would you guys like to have your gf/wife (if you don't have one, pretend) do for you to get you going?
Well if I was your BF I'd get turned on at the idea of you PMing or E-mailing a few hondaswap members some full blown nudes of yourself. now that'd would get me hot if I was your bf... =)


You talked about him going from sitting on his ass all day to working a real job. Sounds like he needs to get use to working again.
 
That's what I figure as well. He's actually 'doing' something with his time. When he first started, he was doing tunes at 530 which gave him 2 hours to eat and relax then he'd get home at 10pm and go to bed then wake up at 5am again. Then he said enough of that... he only tunes on weekends. Sundays... if there's any tuning to be done.

I'll give him a break and do ALL the work for him this week. If I don't have any next week... I'll start wondering.
 
Thanks for the e-mail, those pictures rocked! I always thought it would be cleaned shaved.
 
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