Originally posted by Cashizslick@Nov 9 2003, 04:39 PM
wELL, it sounds like a sticky situation youre in.
When was the last time you did something really nice for her? Im not tryin to make you feel bad or anything, but you gotta remember that Girls need the Verbal Lovins in addition to the Physical lovins.
You both have GOT to be responsible about your lives, think of your kid, what kinda life is he/she gonna have if you and his/her mother cant get your attitudes with eachother right?
You have gotta sit down and have a mature talk with her about being responsible about raising a kid - my best friend never had a dad growin up and i wouldnt wish that on anybody - so if you cant bring yourself to love your g/f then bring yourself to lover her because she/you have a kid, somebody who needs both of you regaurdless of wether you think you need eachother or not.
~maybe not the advice you wanted to hear, but the advice you needed to hear~
BTW, good luck with everything.