Sort of a continuation from a conversation started in the GF pic thread... My girl and I have been together for 7 years and engaged for most of that time, yet have never set a wedding date. We have talked in detail about wedding ideas and plans but neither of us wants to put the effort in to actually planning it. Maybe the biggest factor is money. We want a big party with all of our friends and family, and open bar is a must. Her parents offer us money any time the word wedding is brought up. That being said, getting married is certainly not a pressing issue in our relationship. We are happy the way things are, so whats the point? We dont want kids. We are atheist, so could really give a shit about the religious aspects of marriage. Thoughts, suggestions?