i just don't like the whole, "i've had that already" attitude men have. Plus, if she really just wants to be friends, why can't she hang out with other people. or girls for that.Guys don't really care to be friends with exes, i know i never have. the only reason to be friends with them is "just in case". just in case i needed a shoulder to cry on or some local ass. they are an ex for a reason and they were dumped for a reason. if they were all that and then some we would still be together.