I'm single, Bishes. After 14 years of on again, off again relationship, we ended it this week. I saw her packing her parachute for the jump, had a talk with her, ended it. Lots of people have problems after years of living together. I didn't give her the relationship she wanted (Could you imagine living with me?) and she didn't give me the support that I needed. Taking care of a parent, owning a house, and losing a job makes for a shitty life anyway. So we decided to end it off. I'm glad I did this instead of waiting for my fears to be confirmed: There is no hostility now because there is no betrayal. Just venting.