alright, well i got a call from the insurance yesterday. they had checked out the car at the dealership and said that it would be repaired and not totalled. The guy said i must have hit pretty hard becasue the whole rear end was fucked. They are gonna reaplace that, the two wheels, and i guess i messed up the tie rods and some other stuff in the front, so that is gonna be fixed too.
this means i am gonna have to pay 500 for the deductible, but thats all good, i am just glad shes gonna get her car back.