Pin 1 is located by a dimple/dot/half moon
On the JDM ecu's you'll see something like this screened on the board.
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/........| <--- the / is PIN 1
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|........|
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sorry, my ascii skills are not up to par.....
At any rate, find the dimple/dot/half moon and the / on the board.
Then you have found Pin1