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So I lost a friend just now

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  1. ThatGuy4life

    ThatGuy4life The Riced Sleeper

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    So about 5-6 Years ago, I met this female through my cousin & she just happened to be a lesbian. I really did not see her as more than a friend. I mean she's a good looking girl and all but once I heard "lesbian" I just zoned out. However she pretty much was at my house all the time back then as I partied just about every night in those days and she always ended up coming up to my room after the night was done & we'd talk & go to sleep. We ended up hooking up like 2 weeks after meeting, then she moved out to Cali & pretty much every day for a while she'd tell me I turned her life upside down cause before me she knew she only liked females and now she has feelings for me.

    That all died down as we both went on w/ other females, then she moved back to NM, & came over to a party me & my roommate had which we pretty much played beer pong the entire night, or at least me & my roommate played the entire night seeing as we were undefeated that night. I only remember that because it was on video. I guess I got really trashed that night cause she said I was trying to have her stay w/ me that night & do things, but I don't remember this.

    Anyways she decided to come over the next weekend and she brought an extremely hot friend who,m I just had to get at. We exchanged numbers that night and talked to a few days, then the female that was the lesbian told me I was messed up for trying to get at her best friend when she specifically came over to chill w/ me. So I stopped talking to the other female. Now a few years have gone by and I was browsing facebook and was on one of my boy's page and came across another female that caught my eye, so I sent her a message started talking to her then sent a request to add her, at that point I saw another of our mutual friends was my prior lesbian which turns out to be another one of her best friends.

    So now because I've talked to 2 of her friends which in her world means "I'm always talking to her friends", she told me she can no longer be friends w/ me because I keep hurting her feelings.

    I didn't know you still had feelings seeing as mostly all we talk about is her and her trials and failures w/ other relationships and also the fact that she was/is tryna get w/ my cousin. How did I end up being the bad guy here???
     
  2. invisibledemon

    invisibledemon Bored Moderator VIP

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    you're the guy.
    you'll always be the bad guy.

    fuck her, seems like she's be nothing but drama.
    the kind that says she has feelings for you, but only wants to talk, nothing more.
    waste of time. move on.
     
  3. ThatGuy4life

    ThatGuy4life The Riced Sleeper

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    I told her maybe she shouldn't have pretty friends seeing as she knew the kinda guy I was when she 1st met me
     
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    95b16coupe New Member

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    Men don't have female friends, they have girls they won't fuck, can't fuck, or haven't fucked yet.

    Think about it this way. If you hooked up with a girl, would you want to be her friend if she fucked 2 of your best guy friends?

    No you wouldn't, but for different reasons. No matter the chick, model, lesbian, Quaker, they all get feeling after spending enough time with a guy.

    Your the bad guy because you stayed in a circle of friends. If you talked to her about her friend first, you would have been better off, no matter how it turned out in the end.
     
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    SWAN New Member

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    For some reason I highly agree with this its so true
     
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    Briansol Admins Admin VIP

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    she had feelings for the girl you hooked up with, plain and simple.
     
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    Briansol Admins Admin VIP

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    not true at all.
     
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    95b16coupe New Member

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    How do you figure? If you have a female friend, at some point she became unfuckable.
     
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  10. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    Women are fucking nuts. Every last one. The ones that seem to be the exception to the rule are actually more bat shit crazy then you even care to know. They just hide it well.
     
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    I would say that she has feeling for you reguardless of what happened. If that was not the case then she would not care who you talked/slept/whatever with. The only other thing it might possibly be is that you were competition between her and these other chicks.
     
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