How about this, I'll ship you my ej9, and you ship me your rsx. Then nobody will call you girly. Stupid maybe, but not girly.
It's win-win.
Srsly. It doesn't look girly. I think you're imagining this. If you want, paint the headlights black like ahhhhvtec said, and then maybe put some fogs in. You could also put those window molding things on, but honestly I think they look like garbage. It's all a matter of how far you're willing to go to please everyone else.