This will be a long one... I don't get girls anymore. I honestly think I start to get them... they they flip 180 degrees. I have been with my girl for over 3 years now, and I thought we were doing so great. But the little things are getting to me at this point. I am going to list a few things, and just let me know your thoughts about these... 1. She gets off of work at the restaurant, and decides to hang out at the bar every night until 12 or later. 2. Makes promises to catch up for dinner or go out when I get home from work... but turns out she whores me and hangs out with her friends. 3. Always ignores my calls, or coincidentally doesn't hear her phone... until she is 2 minutes away from home. 4. Gets in car slight car accident numerous times in a year a. slide in the rain and hit her fender into the guard rail b. driving home drunk, sideswiped a car c. curb rashes on 100% of her rims d. just tonight! backs into a car in the parking lot and breaks her taillight. 5. What annoys me the most though about her driving is that she does it drunk. She will leave the bar with 5-6 beers and 2-3 mix drinks 2 to 3 nights out of the week. 6. Her parents gave her a basically brand new Mazda Protege, that she has trashed. She has cigarette burns all over it, trash everywhere, and a closet in her trunk. 6. Every ends up the same... we fuck and go to sleep. Not solving or addressing anything. I mean fuck... I have forgiven her for so much. -She cheated on me back in May '06 -She kept hanging out with this guy all the time whoring me for him 4 nights a week. I know she didn't cheat on me... but it is just shitty. -She flushed her engagement ring down the toilet on accident. So i bought her a new one. She always comments on me not having any friends. I have a core group of buddies, but I prefer to sit at home during the week. I work 9am-8pm (no exaggeration) Monday - Friday. I have the weekends to myself, and sometimes I work then as well. I am trying to save up enough money to pay off my debt by December. But I don't go to the bars on the weekdays, and on weekends I prefer to clean the apartment, visit my parents in PA and watch football. I play my Xbox on the weekends as well but thats for an hour at most. I may go out to the bar once every 2-3 weeks, but it is not something I want to do all the time. I guess it is just me growing up, and her just still being immature. I comtemplate leaving her, because the ignoring of the phone calls happens too much. I would approximate twice a week... every week... for the past year. So about 100 times she has ignored my calls, to stay out late and drink, or to hang out with friends, or to be a total bitch in the past year. And when she does go out and I know about it, she never comes home early. It is always till 12 or later that she comes stumbling in the door. She gets mad at me because I stay up to make sure she gets home ok. For some reason I just keep forgiving her. I think the reason is finances. I have roughly 400 each paycheck to spend after bills on regular pay. I can afford this apartment on my own, but it would be rough. I am not spending any of my overtime money, due to the fact it goes right to bills. So I am sure I could swing it, but it would be so tight, that I don't think I would leave work. I can move in with an old friend of mine in his condo, but it is a 12x10 bedroom... so it is not that big. The bitch of it is... the girl I talked to has come back in my life and wants to hang out. She answers every call, and is all about me. She is just one of those laid back girls that gets annoying because she is too clingy. I ignore her calls and stay away from the conversations about us getting back together, because my heart is with the current girl. But it is so hard to just let my current girl walk all over me. Like case in point... She got off of work at ~10:30, she was drinking at the bar after work. I know this because it seems to be a daily occurance. I know this and start to call her. The first call goes through and I hear the phone fumbling around and hangs up. No answer to the next 5 calls over the course of an hour. So I drive up there and she is there just talking to a whole bunch of girls she works with. I go over to her and ask why she hasnt called me yet, because I have been worried about her. She says... I wrecked my car, and I just want to get drunk. (But she gets drunk 4 nights a week!) So I tell her to grow up and she gets mad, and I leave. So that was 12ish, and it is now 1am.. no calls... not home... and I am positive she will stroll in her at 2:30. I am sorry for venting so much, and I am sure I will vent more but I just need to speak and get some unbiased opinions. Cliff Notes - my current girl is a douchebag rofl- I just proofread the thread, and saw my previous engaement/cheating thread oh how history repeats itself.