okay, so heres the deal...i need some real advice...so me and this girl, we started going out, the thing is we were pretty good friends before we were going out. so we were "together" for like 3 weeks, then she broke it off. her reasons were pretty valid, she has two jobs, is a full time college student, and she is in the college show choir, so she is pretty busy, but on top of that, she was going out with this guy for 5 years, and he cheated on her a bunch of times, in fact one of his "mistresses" is now carrying his baby and they are getting married. so she is just really scared about getting into a really serious relationship, which is why she broke it off. She said she still cares about me, and that she wants to be with me, but shes not ready, because we were headed down one of those really serious paths...so now she said that we should just be friends, because she cant give the relationship 100%. what do you guys think i should do? i really care about this girl, and i know she still cares about me, and i'm cool with waiting till she's ready, but the question is, should I?