Incase people are wondering, and i dont wanna jynx it, i fixed the problem 45 mins ago. No more cel, no more problems, a tad rich due to the p28 and a small smell due to my temporary straight pipe cracking to heat wear.
For the o2 sensor, it was a simple wire switch. Two of the wires were mixed up, one of the grounds and the actual info wire. So after reversing those, i read a few forums about iacv stuff. Found a online scan of a honda manual, but before i did that, I had an extra plug from my harness (or the firewall). Either way, I just swapped the plug in it, and reset the ecu. Low and behold.
It doesn't pull as hard from the bottom rpms, im guessing the flood of fuel from running limp mode helped that out a bit. But on the top end it feels fluid and smooth as butter.
Thanks to everybody who lended a hand, It just didnt feel right not to report it and leave another open thread like this.
So...where do I go from here? Im gonna chip the p28 to run the p08 ecu, but im thinking about a future turbo addition. I want it to be a sleeper, and i'm gonna make a build thread documenting this. Pics of my "christmas car" and all.