So I got my oil changed today, when I got home to drop off the Si and pick up the battle wagon to go back to the office Fedex stopped by and dropped off my gasket/exhaust collector - cat bolts/nuts/springs. So when I got home again I told brian and he asked me if I wanted to work on the car, I said I needed his help so it's up to him too. "Nah man it's up to you!" he says... wtf... I need his help and it's completely up to me to boss him around? No way. So just now he did something he's never done before. Ever, since I've known him in 5 years I've had to slap him around and tell him what we should go do... He made up his mind. He wants to go work on getting the exhaust done. Without my coersion, without my making a decision for him. He made up his own mind. Maybe this is a different BDN from the future, or another planet. Should I be afraid that he's going to kill me in my sleep?