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I have a Problem !! Sexsomnia

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  1. boostedf22

    boostedf22 dis is why im not

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    Not turning this in to a book or nothing but I found out today I have a problem . Sexsomnia or known as Sleep Sex. The girl, I have been with for quite some time now . Asked me on a regular basis , or would make a comment thanking me for last night. Do you remember what you did last night ? I always reply " No why , what happened, what did I do ? She just giggles and goes on . So we were talking and drinking one night . About 2 months ago she said that we have sex all the time ( great sex ) Oral pleasures. the works. And I have no memory of this . As far as I was concerned she was making it all up.

    Only after we fall asleep , She will be awoken with me down there ( *wink*wink*), or doing whatever. Also informs me thats its a totally different person . Uhhhhh that cant be good. But she swears up and down its better. So I did some research on it and found out . I am not the only one who does this shit .

    Sleep sex - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    I worry about what I have done to my other G/F's in the past .lol You know when its so new , you just dont say anything . Or even the new ones to come ?

    What happens when it becomes violent ?? If your asleep , and your mind and body has broken that peaceful connection , no control ???

    Now I know why I never had a wet dream ...hahaha
     
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    TeinGirl Senior Member

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    Thats quite interesting... think that I may have an accute case of this as well... I tend to start things in the middle of the night... weird but I then adventually wake up in the middle of it, always finished what I started too. Never bothered me or the significant other as a matter of fact.
     
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    hmmm... be careful not to be "dreaming" of someone who doesn't share her name... otherwise you''ll wake with a black eye
     
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    boostedf22 dis is why im not

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    Thats whats weird . I dont dream. Or I couldnt tell you what it was. I dont remember anything. When I go to sleep . I am out !!!

    Yeah there is def. no complaints. Just weird as hell your going all out and sexually satisfying someone and you have no idea what the hell your doing , From start to finish .
     
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    boostedf22 dis is why im not

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    Sleep sex is much like sleepwalking, but much, much worse. Sleepwalking ... takes place just before deep REM sleep, and the person who experiences it won’t remember what they have done if they are never woken up afterwards. These unfortunate people are unable to wake from their sleep unless something happens that doesn’t mesh with what is happening in their dreams.
    For instance, a man beating his wife in his dreams wouldn’t wake up to the sound of her screams because she would be screaming in his dreams as well. He might wake up if she started to speak soothingly to him, because this wouldn’t mesh with the reality he is experiencing within his dreams.
    Cases have been reported of husbands killing their wives, raping them, masturbating so violently that they wake up with bruises and wives who have sex with total strangers, all while being totally asleep.
    Christian Guilleminault, professor of psychiatry and behavioural sciences at the Stanford School of Medicine, studied 11 patients, grouping them according to the seriousness of their symptoms.
    In all cases except one, the patient's disorder was cured by sleep disorder treatments including drugs similar to Valium and treatments used for breathing disturbances.

    I think I should get some help ... Before anything like this happens
     
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    I know... I am the same way... I am pretty much out cold when Im sleeping... and I dont remember anything, even as to conversations Ive had... its crazy! Its not like acting out a sex dream either... I dont know its strange... I seriously make sexual advances in my sleep & are not aware! I never knew that I started anything I always figured the significant other did & sometimes I would never even remember that I had done anything the night before, even when I came to mid riding or whatever the act happened to be. lol
    :confused:
     
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    Holy Shit... I think that I may need to check into this as well... never thought that it could harm someone... but I suppose that it is pretty similar to sleep walking
     
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    lol what do you say? Thats quite interesting...

    "I molest people whilest sleeping..."

    Oh however, I do have a friend that watches people sleep for a living, I suppose that I could ask him if hes ever heard of anyone with this "sexsomnia" or whatever you want to call it... "sleep sexin'" but that could also be strange asking a friend that as well
     
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    boostedf22 dis is why im not

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    Yeah I plan on it . Just to see what they say . One solution is taking muscle relaxers. Since its all in the mind. I am sure they throw some crazy head med at me .

    My girl says shes fine with the way it is , never been violent before . Hell if anything I am nicer that way. I stay being a prick all day . If you dealt with the idoits and baby sit grown men all day .. You tend to stay that way.
     
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    boostedf22 dis is why im not

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    You know coming from a woman , That doesnt sound too bad !!!

    Here let me try


    I molest people while sleeping !!! --- I think I shouldnt go round saying that .
     
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    Hahaha... yea, it does sound better coming from a woman... Ive never had a violent out burst & I do agree that I think that I am a little bit nicer while sleep sexin'... lol its that nice sex while sleeping... then once Im awake... haha
     
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    Wish I had that down in Texas. :ph34r:

    but with my luck Jamie wouldn't have been sleeping there that night. lol
     
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    Well, I can tell you something... I wouldn't mind a woman... I mean... someone sleep sexing me. However... I just think that if you're unaware of what's going on, you might say something like when you talk in your sleep. But... I'm just looking out for you. I used to have problems with sleep paralysis. I'd be wide awake, but see things in front of me (dreams... completely hallucinated) but unable to move, get up, ANYTHING. It's the freakiest feeling ever. You feel like you're dead.
     
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    "I've never had a wet dream"
    "I don't dream"
    "I suffer from sleep sex, an ultra-rare condition that still hasn't been diagnosed - but is very popular for conversation"
    "my girlfriend says I shit gold bricks (paraphased), and I'm a god in bed. I don't know why"

    uh huh..
     
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    So what happens if you have a few buddies crash for the night? Do you have one of Lance Bass' sex dreams?
     
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    You mean the one where he makes out with an Astronaut and sends him to the moon?
     
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