OK, I'll give you a serious answer, and you better fucking listen to it, because you need a TON of help.
Don't buy ANY parts for the car now. Educate yourself. Ask intelligent (key word) questions AFTER you've done research. And go buy Maximum Boost by Corky Bell from amazon.com I won't go so far as to say it's the bible of boost, but it comes damn close. Read it. Re read it. Read it again. Take it to the shitter with you and read a chapter. Read it on the bus. Memorize it. Then go to the FI board on Honda Tech. They have some of the fastest guys in the industry there. From what little I've seen on this board, everyone with a fucking keyboard is a goddamn turbo professor here. I wouldn't trust the info on this board as much as I would over on HT. Sorry B, but it's the truth.