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  1. 92civicb18b1

    92civicb18b1 The Trisexual

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    I'll try to make this as short as possible.

    My old roommate (removed on 1/31/08) took a trip to VA, on the way back she got arrested for possession of CDS in a motor vehicle as well as speeding 98 in a 65.

    There was a never a lease or any other legal document showing her residence at my house.

    I drove all the way down to MD, bailed her out for the 10% of the $2500 bail, obviously $250. That amount of money wasn't that big of a deal.

    She missed her municipal court date and I attempted to revoke her bail for the superior court charge. I was denied.

    She missed her court date on the 31st, but she hadn't come back to the house for a few days before that. I toalked to her on the 31st and said I would drive her down for her court date, which was just a preliminary hearing and she would have walked away, regardless of her plea, she would have at most been looking at 6mo-1yr probation and a small fine.

    Her baby's daddy came by and I told him the situation and told him if she doesn't own up then I'm gonna take matters into my own hands. She refuses to answer the phone ir make any type of contact with me.

    So today, I decided I'm gonna repo everything she has, including the baby's stuff, besides her baby daddy's car....which is next on the list. I took everything out of the house and put it in storage, changed every lock on the house and told her she has 45 days to claim her shit or I'm trashing it.

    I have 90 days from 1.31.08 to apprehend her. As of now I'm waiting on a copy of the warrants so I can serve them.

    Let me tell you guys something, acquiring these warrants was extremely difficult and has to go through like 4 different people before I can actually get a copy of them, BUT I should have them by Monday. This in itself may be illegal but I have my connections. Apparently, district courts in MD don't give citizens any type legal document pertaining to another individual, regardless of the situation. This is bullshit in my case, since I went straight to the commissioner to bail her out, no bondsmen or anything.

    So is repo'ing her shit without notice illegal?

    How I get the warrants is not an issue, I am getting them legally, I just had to pull a lot of strings to get them.

    I did leave a voicemail, the only way I'm gicing her shit back is when I know she's in custody and the storage/truck fee is paid.
     
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  2. MXDesa

    MXDesa Senior Member

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    Why are you involved and why are you keeping her stuff? Because of the bail money? Im interested :) Good Luck by the way
     
  3. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    this shit is why you have so many problems. you don't have to listen because i'm not your dad or your best friend, just some douche from the internet putting in my .02.

    the reason you keep getting yourself into shit is because you are involving yourself with other people. you need to clean your shit up first. who is this girl and why do you need to fuck with her? you are taking the time driving around, paying bail and dealing with a baby's daddy. come on now. all you are going to do is get yourself into more shit. you will look back when you are older and realize how fucked up this is.

    here is what you should have done.....

    left the bitch in jail and said, "call your baby's daddy or your family." my friend, you have enough issues yourself. you need to get your shit clean. you need to eat this $250 and run as far and as fast as you can from this situation. don't try and get your money back.

    you can quote me on this...something bad is going to happen because of this. either with her, the court, or her baby's daddy. get out now and take it as a loss.
     
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  4. 92civicb18b1

    92civicb18b1 The Trisexual

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    No you don't understand, it's not 250 bucks, since she skipped bail it's 2500 bucks. This was a few months back when it happened. She was a good friend and I was doing her a favor, she just fucked me over.

    My gf works in corrections and isn't on this kind of bullshit, she's helping me out in all this.

    Her baby's daddy came down with me, we're good friends also, but he was broke. He gave me the 250 back, but couldn't sign for the bail because it was my cc and they wouldn't allow it, I tried.

    I'm doing everything legal besides the repossession, I have a skip tracer friend who's gonna serve the warrant and pick her up legally.

    I'm not taking a loss, call me stupid, but I'll sit in jail with the bitch before I let her walk free because I'm a nice guy.
     
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    Yep, shoulda left her ass sitting there. I don't know shit about whether or not it's illegal, but usually you have to go through a process to do stuff like that. Just like a landlord can't just kick someone out for not maying rent and instead have to go through an eviction process, I am sure there is an outlined process for doing what you need to do, and if there isn't then there's probably a law stating that it's illegal. Call the police station or a lawyer or someone who would know, and just ask. Don't give them any info, just ask about it "for future reference" or whatever.
     
  6. get_nick

    get_nick These snozzberries taste like snozzberries... VIP

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    i stand corrected. if it is going to cost you 2500, that is a big difference. do you know where she is at? i would do everything possible. have her served at work if you have to. just track her down.

    but to answer your question, yes, it is illegal to take her stuff. she could go to court and say you stole it. it's a tough situation to be in.

    it would be bad to call the cops on your friend just to get your money back.
     
  7. khrisb

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    call a lawyer fuck asking dudes on a honda forum for legal advise


    maybe thats why you're in this situation in the first place
     
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    exactly what i said.

    Yea 2500 is a lot, but i still think you shouldn't have messed with her shit. As of right now i would bet that you could be in some deep shit for moving her stuff out of the house alone, let alone locking it up in storage somewhere else where she has no access to it. Does she pay rent to you, or do you guys pay it to a landlord? right now you probably have stolen her stuff, and illegally evicted her from her residence.

    Tough situation man, I'd be pissed too, but i think you should consider bringing her stuff back to the house to avoid more legal problems.
     
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    you cant do that with her stuff, and you also cant kick her out,,so lets hope she dont find out and you will be ok.
     
  10. 93civicracer

    93civicracer Oh, I do a little here and there.

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    Call Dog the Bounty hunter.
     
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    call the local police dept. they will let you know what you can and can not do with her stuff. sorry about the money.
     
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    call phyregod the bounty hunter.
     
  13. 92civicb18b1

    92civicb18b1 The Trisexual

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    It's my grandmother's house and it's in my grandmother's name. I just live in it. Legally she has no proof that she lived here, there was no lease for her and I was charging her a ridiculously low amount of rent.

    She won't call the police or try to file a law suit against me because she's scared of going to jail. Everything she owns is there, besides the food and it's going to remain there until she's in custody, I didn't take it just to take it, I did it so I have a better chance at finding her. My lawyer was in PA and couldn't talk to me for the past couple of days so I just did it.

    I only got a hold of my detective friend up here, my detective friend in MD, the Bergen County Sheriffs, the Somerset County Sheriffs, and her job for her work schedule. I know for a fact where she'll be on Monday at least the baby's daddy, but I'll follow him, regardless I have to get the warrants early in the AM on Monday, so I can work with my bounty hunter friend to serve them legally.

    And I have ideas on where she's at, but I can't guarantee anything, she's the kind of person who will quit her job and hide in the BX over something so small.

    I called the district court in MD and they are willing to pay to extradite her MD.
     
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    it dont matter if someone has there name on it or not,if she ever lived there with or without name on something you cant kick her out by law, you have to go through the courts, and have her put out with will take about 4 months,,but hell if she dont know that then dont tell her.
     
  15. 92civicb18b1

    92civicb18b1 The Trisexual

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    I'm aware, my grandmother had an incident with a previous tenant years ago, NJ is a little quicker, 60-90 days.

    She doesn't want to be here and she won't show her face anyway, I gave her a verbal eviction notice and 45 days to claim her shit, I can have a legal document notarized and have my skip tracer post it on her door, so I have proof.


    Lucky me, the friend she staying with has a big mouth, since her friend is my gf's cousin, I got all the info I need. I know where she's staying and I know where she needs to be to pick up an SSI check with her baby's daddy. If all goes well I should have the warrants early in the AM and my skip tracer buddy is only 15 mins away.

    Then I won't have to worry about her shit because she's gonna be locked up, her baby's daddy has no rights in NJ, not as long as he wants to keep getting his SSI checks anyway.
     
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    See, this is what I'm talking about. I'm able to EASILY put a price tag on bullshit, and I wouldn't ever bother with this clown bitch for $250.

    Give her her stuff back and never talk to her or anyone like her again. Write this lesson down on a piece of paper. Move on with life.
     
  17. Aleaf.CRX

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    No, it's not illegal to take her shit if you give her a set time in which to pick it up. Just to be on the safe side though, I'd set it up in writing and make sure it's known that you want her to get her shit in 90 days. But, if she doesn't comply, you're free to do with it what you want. Besides, if shit does go down over it, she's in less of a position to bitch, so I'm sure you could fight it.
    But that's only if you want to keep yourself involved with drama. I'm with everyone else, you should drop this bitch and book it as far away from her as you can. She sounds like a dumb, inconsiderate bitch.
     
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    So i can go take your car, give you terms you have to follow in order to get it back, then keep it if you don't follow through? Doesn't work like that. He can't take the shit unless there was some prior agreement about something she had to do or else he would repo her shit.
     
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    its illegal, if he dont go through the courts
     
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    Well, I looked it up out of curiosity and basically, in New Jersey, the rule is, is that she can get her stuff, anytime, as long as it's in a peaceful manner.
    If she is no longer allowed to live there, it's your property, so she has no other choice.
    If she's still allowed to live there, she can still get it, but the gist is the same.
    How is he not allowed to kick her out if it's his property and she has no legal remnants of her ever living there???
    What if I paid rent to my mom and then she just up and kicked me out?
    Is that illegal? The house is in her name, but I was paying to live there?
    Cuz, that actually happened to me....
     
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