Discussion in 'Members' Lounge' started by totalburnout, Apr 6, 2007.
is pretty stupid and never works out, yet some people never learn.
another g... i think he means juggling lol
I missed a lot apparently too.
Was in a shitty mood when I wrote the thread and wasn't paying attention.
I'm assuming you meant juggling.
If so, I agree. It's fucking retarded. I almost wish I could betray my morals every time I listen to one of my good friends brag about doing so. Yeah, I've had the option, but I can't get myself to do it. Hell, I even turn down one night stands(ALMOST every time). What I see as crap is that I end up lonely and depressed while douche bags are having the time of their fucking lives.
Uhh, lots of aggression towards this topic. I give up, I'm going to sleep now.
So whats the point of this thread? You juggle two girls and they found out and both kneed you in the nuts?
Well, get out of the highschool "dating" scene.
You can go on a date with one chick.
Then, you can go on a date with another chick.
A date doesn't mean you slapped a wedding ring on her finger, or even hinted at the possiblility of a "relationship". Its just a date. Some chicks just need to understand these things.
Hey, hey, I'm no douch bag
My thoughts as well
+1^^^^^^^ rep for you good sir
To get caught up with the thread since I've been on the phone for the past few hours.
Its not a high school dating scene.
Former D1 soccer player, full academic scholarship, perfect to me and for me, falls victim to my ways. She was in a long term 5year relationship where her previous bf threatened to stab her and he beat her. We have sex and date one another without titles.
Ex girlfriend (in a relationship with me for ~4ish years) whispers in my ear she loves me.
Random girls in atlantic city.
The nut that everyone said could not be cracked, the "untouchable" is touchable by the ian. She had a boyfriend for 6years, only ever been with him...until me. Throws herself at me, literally, telling me all sorts of thing - I take her up on the offer and she actually backs up her offer.
Last night's party;
Housemate invites girl that broke up with her boyfriend of 6years, invites girl I used to date and who has become a booty call, this booty call girl invites the girl I've been seeing. Hilarity and absurdity by everyone else ensues. Everyone at the party says my name and everyone knows what they are talking about. Girls who I didn't know, knew, come up to me, tell me I'm an idiot and jokingly slap me. I come out of that night unscathed, letting the current girl know I had sex with the other two just not the recency of events. I do this incase anyone slips and I have to explain myself.
Tonight I break the news to the girl I've been seeing.
She's not taking it so well right now.
so which one is not taking it well? the one that ended a 6 year relationship to be with you?
6year relationship girl is a Stage 11 clinger. My buddy called that and I suspected that would happen, but she gave it up to me easily, telling me if I came and picked her up that night I was going to get ass. She obviously wants me to chose her and for her to be my girl.
The former soccer girl is the one I was 'dating' but I didn't know how seriously she felt for me, until she gave me this big elaborate card on Tuesday which she must have spent hours on which made me feel like a complete dick. She's the one that was crying last night and just dumbfounded because it happened behind her back. I had sex with her on Sunday, then the other girl Sunday night. She just figured out how she was talking to girl #1 at the party on Thursday night and smiling, laughing, and being introduced to friends and now she understands why I pulled her away from the other girl.
The ex would die if she knew any of this, since I kind've ended that situation the same way.
The fuck buddies/random ass/my other girls on the side aren't really being factored into my equation.
They're all on me and taking it poorly but I was referring to the soccer/scholarship girl who is a senior at my college.
Female soccer players FTW.
But sounds like you are spreading yourself too thin, even for someone juggling girls. TCNJ is a small school, which means you have to be extra careful. But what do I know, I went back out with the ex last week for all of about 27 hours.
This is why you don't do this crap, and if you do you make sure they live at least 5 towns away.
you think you are a player but you have no idea what's going on.
A) Be a man and have 1 good relationship. stop whoring around.
B) Smarten up. you should never get caught up like this. I had this problem when i was a couple years younger than you. Real pimps keep it on the downlow. The girls they are with keep it on the downlow.
If you want to have real game, you will be able to detect a clinger. Bagging girls is easy. Anybody can bang college chicks, but you need to step it up a level.You are at the "wedding crasher" level. It's time to work up to "funeral crasher". you have a lot to learn homey.
Stuff starts getting fun when you go for classy and sophisticated women. It's like being a hunter. You are in college so you are shooting the poor defenseless fawn that is drinking from the watering hole. Make it a challenge and go for the real game. hahaha
The SAME watering hole. Girls can't keep their mouths shut. if you bang any girl in any given area, chances are all her friends will know. so if you bang two girls in the same area.. utuh!
common sense y0
Notice I didn't get caught and never have, I come clean because the lying is not something I can deal with and look someone in the eye that I care about.
I successfully made it through a party, with three girls that I've slept with all recently, without incident. Its not about being stupid and getting caught, its about being stupid and fucking up in the first place.
And yes, Slush, TCNJ is a small school but it seems as though every intelligent girl that you would think would never go for a guy with such a colorful past as mine, wants in on the fun.
I love how the internet is a chest beating place. I just fucked up with one of the most intelligent, good looking, good hearted, girls that I've ever met and I get told to step it up a notch and go for girls with more class. .......... Any girl that I've dated has been with less than a handful of guys, are very intelligent, and good looking.
Honestly my problem isn't the quality of girls that I'm getting, its about fucking up. I keep chasing after that feeling of love and the passion of the kiss. I want to be able to kiss someone like I could once kiss my ex, I feel numb and as if none of it matters.
They can say they don't, but every girl loves a badass. The girls I hooked up with before the ex I treated like absolute shit. They still try to hook up with me to this day. My ex was the first girl that really got in my head. Now after a little over a year I have to work on getting the game back up and getting back into my old mindset. But if you want a relationship, by all means, go for it. I don't regret the year I spent with my ex at all, but now it's time to realize it just isn't going to work and move on.
Thing is, I fuck up perfectly good relationships and I don't know why.
Its like I can't deal with being content and happy and I need to stir things up and get myself in crazy situations like this.
Welcome to a relationship. I turned down two different threesomes with 4 different girls when I was just starting my last relationship. It's about being able to control yourself and realize you have a good thing that you don't want to fuck up.
you're chasing the dragon dude
you will never have that feeling again
now the most you can achieve is the fun of the hunt and satisfaction of the success
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