The a/c in my teg now works. I had tried to recharge it with one of those cans of refrigerant from an auto parts store, but it didn't work. So the other night, I took it to my Honda dealership mechanic that is allowed to work on his own jobs afterhours... he recharged my system and also put some dye in. So far the a/c is working and there are no apparent leaks. An oil change, an alignment, and the a/c system recharge only cost me $50. That can from AutoZone cost me $20. Next time around, I will just take it directly to my mechanic.
So my thought is that you should just take your car in to be professionally recharged. Call around to several different garages to see how much they charge ahead of time.