yeah so ive had this girl for ever now like 5 yrs lil off and on normal stuff but ive been trying to leave her and just b by myself. so long story short she wants the dick and i didnt feel like it cuz most of the time when she comes over late night shes drunk and after i hit it i like to keep my distance for a day or too and she thinks im in it just for the poon. so we get to my house were chillin the whole couple deal snuggling and bs and its late so we go to bed and while im getting ready for bed i look at my tv and there is a porn in the vcr, so i kill the lights and get in to bed. now i was suposed to remove the tape and put it away b4 work btu i forgot. so i give the hugs and kisses and leave for work(with her stil there) and i get back on my lunch break and see a note taped to the tv and it says something like what i dont do it for you anymore blah blah im done i dont wanna get hurt blah blah. and then i text her and ask what that was about and tats where i am now. the ? is should i care or should i use this to move away. like when things are good they are real good but when shit hits the fan my whole house gets covered. so i dont know if i should try and patch or just let her think what she wants.