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should i care or not

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  1. PhyRe

    PhyRe Senior Member

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    yeah so ive had this girl for ever now like 5 yrs lil off and on normal stuff but ive been trying to leave her and just b by myself. so long story short she wants the dick and i didnt feel like it cuz most of the time when she comes over late night shes drunk and after i hit it i like to keep my distance for a day or too and she thinks im in it just for the poon. so we get to my house were chillin the whole couple deal snuggling and bs and its late so we go to bed and while im getting ready for bed i look at my tv and there is a porn in the vcr, so i kill the lights and get in to bed. now i was suposed to remove the tape and put it away b4 work btu i forgot. so i give the hugs and kisses and leave for work(with her stil there) and i get back on my lunch break and see a note taped to the tv and it says something like what i dont do it for you anymore blah blah im done i dont wanna get hurt blah blah. and then i text her and ask what that was about and tats where i am now. the ? is should i care or should i use this to move away. like when things are good they are real good but when shit hits the fan my whole house gets covered. so i dont know if i should try and patch or just let her think what she wants.
     
  2. formby

    formby learning in progress

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    this is your chance....take the easy way out.....let her think she left you.....
     
  3. pissedoffsol

    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    porn > psycho bitches.

    and wtf is a vcr?
     
  4. dohcvtec_accord

    dohcvtec_accord WRX Sellout

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    Umm, just leave her man, caught with pr0n or not. Just do it.
     
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    reckedracing TTIWWOP VIP

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    i would be willing to bet she goes through all your shit with a fine toothed comb wehn you're not there...

    ditch the bitch...
     
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    Battle Pope New Member

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    yeah dude. if you've been looking for a way out, this would be it.
     
  7. PhyRe

    PhyRe Senior Member

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    well shes says she doesnt but.....

    and the funny thing is if she watched the tape its a 3some with two blonds and she swears i love big tittied blondes(there nice but not my all time fav) and she said one thing shell never do with me is a 3some. and i think she watched it. and the shitty thng is last night i was tryin to get pics of her and she didnt let me and then asks in the note if she does it for me anymore. liek what the hell is that about i wanna take pics cuz thats what i like yet you wont let me [​IMG]

    so i text her
    me: why the note?
    her: you know why
    me: care to elaborate?
    her: why do i need to. you know what im talkin about.
    me: but why the note
    her: because it was needed
    me: what ever(my clasic reponce to her)
    (min later) her: i hate you


    hmmm this should be a good night tonight
     
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    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    why do guys waste their time on this shit?

    she's obviously not worth your time dude... let her be retarded somewhere else.

    Pyre's Deli... NEXT!
     
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    infamouz Senior Member

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    ditch the bitch. poon is limitless in this world. remember that.
     
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    IceBolt Senior Member

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    i deno man, if you guys have been together for 5 years it should be a decision that make clearly think through.

    You can't just wing it and say it's over because obviously she means something if you've went out with her that long.

    in the mean time, maybe just let her cool off and if she calls and wants to break up do it, because why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.

    that's just my 2 cents
     
  11. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    i hate it when chicks do that "you know" shit. but i thought you wanted out, if so, do it. if you want the constant ass then buy her some roses and cook her dinner. something about that combo makes them crazy and the panties drop.

    plus, even if you break up, your going to get a call in a week or two. she might be drunk, maybe not. but she will need it. constant ass to none is hard to deal with.
     
  12. Judo_boy_48

    Judo_boy_48 Senior Member

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    She didn't hate you too much when her legs were open.
     
  13. PhyRe

    PhyRe Senior Member

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    but thats where it gets tuff. i broke up with her a week b4 i grad hi skool(03) but weve been together since because of well i dont know but i could see myself sitting in my "hole" with her for the rest of my life cuz she wife material but i took her v card way back when and she didnt take mine so i know there is more in the world but she doesnt. but she def wants to stay with me. and it would be nice for her to be there when i wake up and cook me dinner and shit, i jsut wanna smash other bitches and her b ok with it.

    one day i flat out told her i think its ok to have mistresses(sp?) and or more than one wife. i dunno well see what happ;ens when i get out of work
     
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    You need to post here more often. Seriously. IT's so refreshing when someone applies cold, hardened logic.
     
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    PhyRe Senior Member

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    this is trew. and she bitches at me when it seems like thats all it is but she doesnt say shit when she comes over drunk expecting me to stay up late with her. but i dont get it thats ok for her just cuz she calls me the next day? and i dont?
     
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    pissedoffsol RETIRED

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    "... its kinda hard when shes ready to go...."

    - offspring
     
  17. phyregod

    phyregod !!YTINASNI

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    +1 for the ditch.

    Chicks should at least put up with porn.. Its not even the pr0n... Its the idea that she would be so closed-minded. My wife doesn't like it but she will put up with it. And she doesn't mind watching if its home-made porn between me and her.. so its all good. She doesn't like it. Fine. But she lets me watch all I want.

    She should be willing to bend around a few things without such a fuss. You marry this chick and your life will be pure hell.



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  18. SlushboxTeggy

    SlushboxTeggy It's only stupid if it doesn't work VIP

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    ARE YOU SERIOUS? you and me both. no chick, or at least a chick you would want to fuck on the reg, would be ok with that...




















    thats why you have to do it behind their backs, hahahahaha
     
  19. Dustin_m

    Dustin_m Active Member

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    hey dude, i feel ya. i broke up with my girl of 4 1/2 years earlier this year. she was getting crazy psycho, and i was tired of the shit. always drama one way or another, either she was crying or pissed off throwing shit at me or getting knives. yea it was bad. i finally realized she had waay to hot of a temper. so yea, its over now. and the biggest thing that sucks about being single is not getting some every night. yea it blows. at the same time, i am a lot happier being able to talk to who i want, and go out with my frineds when i want. ehh, besides, me and her still mess around a lot. she sometimes starts to act like we are together and i just tell her straight out that i don't want to be back together, so if she doesn't want to have sex and get the wrong idea, then we don't ahve to. she always still does.


    so yea, i say you leave her. leave her and you still might e able to get some ass once in a while with her, on top of any other girls.
     
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    StealthMode Kung Foolin'

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