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So, I've been having these really vivid dreams and was wondering if anyone believed that dreams had hidden subconscience meaning???? And if they do, does anyone know anything about it???
The first step is acceptance of your feelings and the understanding that they're both perfectly natural and normal. Thinking about said person isn't bad in and of itself, obsessive thoughts and thoughts of getting back together against your better judgment are counter-productive. Look at it this way, the more you try not to think about something, the more focused on that thought you actually are. So, you have to work towards accepting that its there and will always hold a place in both your mind and your heart. That will allow you to move forward and then allow good memories to replace the bad ones...instead of trying to gloss the bad ones over with good ones. And, above all else, you have to be honest with yourself. A lot of people recommend talking to yourself while looking into a mirror and I've found it to be incredibly helpful at times.
That said, the most important things to remember are these. You will take steps backwards at times so it's important to not beat yourself up for those missteps and this will take a lot of time and effort on your part. Set your long-term goal, short term goals, and then even more short term goals. Like the hash marks on a gas gauge, Full is your goal, you're on Empty, each 1/4 tank mark is a short-term goal and the smaller marks are the even more short-term goals. You can't get from E to F in one move, but you can get there by passing each one of those hash marks in succession.
Hell = Life, forsaken by Celerity.
And you know what I'm talking about You're typing one thing, but you're thinking another.
Call the Harlem Globetrotters, or Sonny and Cher. 40% of the time the ghosts are just Phyllis Diller in a costume.with Every ghost and goblin from scooby doo on it... and I'm So sure as soon as the ferris wheel stops turning they're all coming after me.. and theres nowhere to go... ..