Nothing is easy. Elementary and high school, College, after college, permanent job, married, owning a house, retiring, kids, ... Nothing is easy. not a goddam thing.
Just after a while two things happen: Your soul dies, and you stop being evenly slightly phased when things go dramatically wrong or you decide "NEver again is somethign bad going to happen to me" and you become an asshole and no one cares if you live or die.
If anyone has a 3rd, tell me about it.